Maybe I'll just go commando

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The creep also drives me crazy, but I can't imagine going commando under most of my clothes, especially jeans! No thank you, I want the barrier between my lady parts and everything else.

The one kind I've found that work fairly well are boy short underwear. I got a few pairs at Aerie last winter that I like, though they are not really summer weight (they are like a herringbone knit, which sounds ridiculous but is actually really soft and comfy). I don't see the ones I have on their site, but I'm considering some of the longer pairs they have, including these: https://www.ae.com/us/en/p/aerie/undies/boyshort-underwear/smoothez-lace-bike-short-underwear/2771_7824_073

The nice thing about boy shorts is they truly do not creep up.

I also think I just have to replace my underwear more often because like you, I find they start to stretch out and get loose after not that long, and then even if they didn't used to creep up, they do.

Do the legs on these ride up as you move? I bought a pair of boy shorts and instead of picking wedgies, I kept pulling the legs down.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did you try this style at Soma? I don't really like the vanishing edge ones, but I love these.

https://www.soma.com/store/product/Embraceable-Super-Soft-Signature-Lace-Brief/570292338?color=719&size=0172&sem=pmax&gclid=CjwKCAjwrranBhAEEiwAzbhNtYKZ1KiW_qZJyDkJuvw07R3IkfI66LyH7IaRTZg4wt34k3Gg3bubhBoCBxsQAvD_BwE

No but I am going to order some now. Thanks!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I started going commando.

Barf! You do understand that purpose of underwear is to prevent stuff from your anus and Vijayjay getting onto your clothes. Hygiene first and then fashion. Not the other way around.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Soma vanishing edge.

+1

[Anonymous]

I love these

https://www.amazon.com/Panties-Underwear-Hipster-Underpants-DarkSeries/dp/B08B4JP414?pd_rd_w=oAbWh&content-id=amzn1.sym.b854a5c2-4475-41f8-a6d4-df92b2868104&pf_rd_p=b854a5c2-4475-41f8-a6d4-df92b2868104&pf_rd_r=XR5SR5PKH2XF12S327T0&pd_rd_wg=j7bus&pd_rd_r=3e54c9b6-6d10-4088-8f97-e1f8b3203177&pd_rd_i=B08B4JDZM1&psc=1&ref_=pd_basp_bia_rpt_ba_s_1_sc&th=1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I started going commando.

Barf! You do understand that purpose of underwear is to prevent stuff from your anus and Vijayjay getting onto your clothes. Hygiene first and then fashion. Not the other way around.

Why can’t adults just say “vulva”? It’s not a gross word. It’s not especially evocative.

[Anonymous]

I'm plus size, but the cotton full briefs with some spandex at Lane Bryant are awesome. I've found the trick is to buy a full brief (not high thigh or any thing else), basically granny panties, with mostly cotton and spandex, a size large than I need = no creep.

[Anonymous]

Gross if you go commando. All your poop and pee stains go straight onto your clothes!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I started going commando.

Barf! You do understand that purpose of underwear is to prevent stuff from your anus and Vijayjay getting onto your clothes. Hygiene first and then fashion. Not the other way around.

+1. How gross for those unfortunate enough to sit in a chair after you commando people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Gross if you go commando. All your poop and pee stains go straight onto your clothes!!!

?? Are you guys pooping and peeing yourselves while out and about?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Gross if you go commando. All your poop and pee stains go straight onto your clothes!!!

?? Are you guys pooping and peeing yourselves while out and about?

+1

I’m staunchly anti-commando, but more because of general ick and not because I regularly soil myself. That poor PP, that’s awful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The creep also drives me crazy, but I can't imagine going commando under most of my clothes, especially jeans! No thank you, I want the barrier between my lady parts and everything else.

The one kind I've found that work fairly well are boy short underwear. I got a few pairs at Aerie last winter that I like, though they are not really summer weight (they are like a herringbone knit, which sounds ridiculous but is actually really soft and comfy). I don't see the ones I have on their site, but I'm considering some of the longer pairs they have, including these: https://www.ae.com/us/en/p/aerie/undies/boyshort-underwear/smoothez-lace-bike-short-underwear/2771_7824_073

The nice thing about boy shorts is they truly do not creep up.

I also think I just have to replace my underwear more often because like you, I find they start to stretch out and get loose after not that long, and then even if they didn't used to creep up, they do.

Do the legs on these ride up as you move? I bought a pair of boy shorts and instead of picking wedgies, I kept pulling the legs down.

PP here. I have not tried this bike short ones yet, just checking them out.

But the boy shorts I currently have, the legs don't roll or ride up. The hem is under my butt cheeks and then a little higher in front, so there really isn't any "leg" to ride up. I do find that when I wear them under fitted pants, putting on the pants can pull them up and I have to reach in and smooth them out, but then they stay put.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Gross if you go commando. All your poop and pee stains go straight onto your clothes!!!

?? Are you guys pooping and peeing yourselves while out and about?

DP but if you are over a certain age and have had kids, sometimes you are peeing a little. Sorry, it's true. I'm just getting over a bad cough and I had to wear period underwear of rate last two weeks because if I cough hard enough, unless my bladder is completely empty, a little pee comes out.

I will never, ever go commando.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I started going commando.

Barf! You do understand that purpose of underwear is to prevent stuff from your anus and Vijayjay getting onto your clothes. Hygiene first and then fashion. Not the other way around.

Why can’t adults just say “vulva”? It’s not a gross word. It’s not especially evocative.

Np. I completely agreed! I've taught my kids to use the word vulva appropriately, and I don't understand why people don't use this completely normal and as yet unadulterated (pun intended) word.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Gross if you go commando. All your poop and pee stains go straight onto your clothes!!!

I'm sorry to tell you but your underwear are also your clothes.