First date with a woman- tips?

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Anonymous wrote:Bi woman here. Dating women is so easy! You can actually talk to them like people because they have emotional awareness and empathy. If you’re nervous you can say “I’m nervous!” And they will respond in a sensitive way. It’s pretty hard to mess up, in other words. Relax, be nice (follow the golden rule!), be honest and vulnerable and see where things go!


Bi man here. Men can and do have all the qualities you mention as well.


They're specifically looking for and discussing WLW relationships in this thread. Leave it to a dude to come in and be like, "Not all men! Just be in a straight relationship!"


Maybe men don’t like being stereotyped anymore than any other person? But then of course you doubled down with some more gender based generalities.


Yet there it was. A man coming on here trying to get a woman to date men when she's already said she didn't want to.


Maybe check your reading ability. She never said she didn't want to date men, she was asking about dating a woman. Also, I was responding to a separate poster (not the OP) who laundry listed a bunch of qualities that apparently (to her) only women have.

So sure, go ahead and twist what actually happened to fit the narrative you desire.


np This isn't about you. Go to a thread with hetrosexuals!


+1
Straight people don't make everything about themselves challenge (impossible)
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Anonymous wrote:Bi woman here. Dating women is so easy! You can actually talk to them like people because they have emotional awareness and empathy. If you’re nervous you can say “I’m nervous!” And they will respond in a sensitive way. It’s pretty hard to mess up, in other words. Relax, be nice (follow the golden rule!), be honest and vulnerable and see where things go!


Bi man here. Men can and do have all the qualities you mention as well.


They're specifically looking for and discussing WLW relationships in this thread. Leave it to a dude to come in and be like, "Not all men! Just be in a straight relationship!"


Maybe men don’t like being stereotyped anymore than any other person? But then of course you doubled down with some more gender based generalities.


Yet there it was. A man coming on here trying to get a woman to date men when she's already said she didn't want to.


Maybe check your reading ability. She never said she didn't want to date men, she was asking about dating a woman. Also, I was responding to a separate poster (not the OP) who laundry listed a bunch of qualities that apparently (to her) only women have.

So sure, go ahead and twist what actually happened to fit the narrative you desire.


np This isn't about you. Go to a thread with hetrosexuals!


As I said, I'm a bi male. You go to a thread where people can't spell and lack reading skills.
Anonymous
I would ask my wife but she wasn't aware she was on a date when she met up with a colleague for drinks after work and her coworker kissed her good night. My wife is so naive but it was great for a laugh
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Anonymous wrote:I would ask my wife but she wasn't aware she was on a date when she met up with a colleague for drinks after work and her coworker kissed her good night. My wife is so naive but it was great for a laugh


OP here, that's funny, sounds like something this girl would do haha. I'm still dating her, but we only kiss and cuddle. She's sleeping over tonight and I'm hoping we will go all the way. She said she wants to but she is nervous, and that I need to make the moves. At our last sleepover we were both too shy, but that was a few weeks ago and I'm feeling more bold. Tomorrow we have a fun day in San Francisco planned (we are in CA) so I hope we can do it beforehand so that we feel connected and I don't have to keep worrying about it.
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Anonymous wrote:I would ask my wife but she wasn't aware she was on a date when she met up with a colleague for drinks after work and her coworker kissed her good night. My wife is so naive but it was great for a laugh


OP here, that's funny, sounds like something this girl would do haha. I'm still dating her, but we only kiss and cuddle. She's sleeping over tonight and I'm hoping we will go all the way. She said she wants to but she is nervous, and that I need to make the moves. At our last sleepover we were both too shy, but that was a few weeks ago and I'm feeling more bold. Tomorrow we have a fun day in San Francisco planned (we are in CA) so I hope we can do it beforehand so that we feel connected and I don't have to keep worrying about it.

How did it go? Did you finally have sex? or still too shy?
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Anonymous wrote:I would ask my wife but she wasn't aware she was on a date when she met up with a colleague for drinks after work and her coworker kissed her good night. My wife is so naive but it was great for a laugh


OP here, that's funny, sounds like something this girl would do haha. I'm still dating her, but we only kiss and cuddle. She's sleeping over tonight and I'm hoping we will go all the way. She said she wants to but she is nervous, and that I need to make the moves. At our last sleepover we were both too shy, but that was a few weeks ago and I'm feeling more bold. Tomorrow we have a fun day in San Francisco planned (we are in CA) so I hope we can do it beforehand so that we feel connected and I don't have to keep worrying about it.

How did it go? Did you finally have sex? or still too shy?


OP here, yes we did! And I asked her to be my girlfriend that weekend that I wrote my last reply. We have been official for almost 2 weeks now (dated for about 6 weeks before I asked). We just went bowling with my kids last night which was fun. She's the first person that I've dated who has met my kids.
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Anonymous wrote:I would ask my wife but she wasn't aware she was on a date when she met up with a colleague for drinks after work and her coworker kissed her good night. My wife is so naive but it was great for a laugh


OP here, that's funny, sounds like something this girl would do haha. I'm still dating her, but we only kiss and cuddle. She's sleeping over tonight and I'm hoping we will go all the way. She said she wants to but she is nervous, and that I need to make the moves. At our last sleepover we were both too shy, but that was a few weeks ago and I'm feeling more bold. Tomorrow we have a fun day in San Francisco planned (we are in CA) so I hope we can do it beforehand so that we feel connected and I don't have to keep worrying about it.

How did it go? Did you finally have sex? or still too shy?


OP here, yes we did! And I asked her to be my girlfriend that weekend that I wrote my last reply. We have been official for almost 2 weeks now (dated for about 6 weeks before I asked). We just went bowling with my kids last night which was fun. She's the first person that I've dated who has met my kids.


Oh yay! Congratulations! That's all so cute. <3
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Anonymous wrote:I guess you were singing this today:



LOL!
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