I would cite the policy and if the principal doesn't budge, work with central office directly. The principal is confusing the process. This is not the case for public-school students. |
Agree, it´s the difference between meeting another district´s cut-off and following a state approved curriculum vs using private K, which may not be accredited, as a workaround. |
Our private's curriculum was much stronger than MCPS. All the kids were reading, writing and doing far more math. |
Sure, it was
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Yes it’s exactly how it works. BTDT. |
MCPS isn't very strong in the early years. It was much stronger. |
This is no early entrance but a transfer from another public jurisdiction. Website says differently. |
| The jurisdictions should align the cutoff dates. Why can’t they be the same in MD and DC. |
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MCPS is doing you a favor. Do you really want your kid going off to HS before their 14th birthday or to college when before their 18th? Tell your kid that they just have to redo Kindergarten at the new school since those are the rules. Sure, they might be a little bored for some of their elementary years but you get an extra year of their childhood. High school has all the challenge any kid could want.
signed, parent of an older kid who is grateful they are not going to college at 17 |
Did your private accept kids who were younger than the state cut off? In my experience, the schools that allow this do this because they are hurting for students, often because their academics are poor. |
Nice shiv! |
No, they aren't. I have a child like this and you are talking about a few weeks. We sent ours to private school for a few years to handle the situation however its a mistake to hold a smart kid back as MCPS isn't challenging till high school. My kid turned 14 right after HS started. No big deal. You don't get an extra year of childhood by holding them back. Your post makes zero sense. You held your child back for your needs, not theirs. |
Academics were far more advanced, homework every night, spelling tests and much more. They were flexible with birthdays and allowed September-October kids to start K early entrance. The expectation was the kids were reading and other basic skills but kids who were in their preschool for the most part were. All the kids I knew were reading by the time they entered K. All of them are doing well years later. |
I turned 18 about 2 months into my freshman year at college (my school district cutoff was 12/31 and I have a fall birthday)...it was totally fine and the only difference from the kids that were already 18 was that my parents had to sign my freshman housing contract. I think it would have been worse to be 18 for my whole senior year - to be a legal adult but still be treated like a child. I was also 21 for less time at college, which was definitely a good thing. |
Agreed, holding kids back reduces their time as adults and is not for the kids needs, but the parents needs. |