A relative died and I’m learning uncomfortable things about my mom

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Could be her trying to protect you from something like physical or sexual abuse. Or she could just be angry at them and wanted to prevent them from seeing you. Could be a lot of things.

That was my first thought.

[Anonymous]

Once you became an adult, this was on you. With the internet, you could have gotten in touch with them directly (or they with you) at any given point. Don't blame your mom.