This is a good point. It may see, fine now, but it is a lot harder socially when he is 12 and his classmates are 13-14. The anecdotes of “when I was a kid” don’t really matter anymore. It isn’t the 1980s/90s. School is different. Kindergarten has vastly different expectations. Getting into to good colleges, internships, etc. is much more competitive than it was decades ago. I would send him on time when he is already 5, not early. Being in the 99th percentile is a better place to be than if you start him early and he sits at the 75th percentile...or wherever. Just an example, but point is he will have more advantages to be over prepared for schools than for being simply “ready” |
My daughter is a sophmore. These were the metrics when she started school. It’s not new. |
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It’s always better to be on the older side of the class than the youngest side, esp for boys. He may be fine academically but he’ll always be physically smaller than the other boys. Do you want your son to have a chance at sports? If so, don’t start him early.
Also, boys in general are slower to mature so that is doubly compounded for a boy who is 12 months younger than the other kids. Why rush to start K? |
Also realize that MANY kids meet the criteria for 1st grade before first grade. My son with dyslexia was always right at grade level for reading...and that was always the lowest reading group. The baseline is not average. It is something that the lower performers can meet. |
It’s a a thing if you are trying to send your kid before they are supposed to go according to the cut off. I mean I agree that there isn’t much difference between a kid born 8/31 and one born 9/2. It’s also possible the September bday would pass this early entrance assessment and the august one wouldn’t, but the august bday kid goes to K and the sept one doesn’t. There has to be a cut off somewhere, it just is what it is |
My thoughts. Also why is everyone saying they'd be the youngest in their class if their child has a late birthday. Your child would still be the same age as every other 5 year old by the end of the year. And then everyone will be five turning 6 by August. Same age group, not much of a difference. It didnt make a difference in daycare. The only odd ages would be the late birthdays of 6 year olds turning 7 being older than the five years if they start late. And why would you want a 5 year old doing 1st grade level with a bunch of 5 years old at kindergarten level in the same classroom? |
Too young |
OP a classic DCUM flaw is to focus on academics over emotional intelligence and social skills. Academics are easier to measure but the emotional and social skills are just as important. Early entry means your kid might be shorter, slower and less coordinated than most of their classmates. It means they might be later than their peers to hit puberty (including prefrontal cortex development and abstract thought), to be ready for the social world of the middle school lunch cafeteria, for friendships, to handle frustrations (including how to self-regulate with screens), or to drive. Academics won't help for these, but social and emotional skills will. If the early entrance test doesn't assess for this, you should assess it yourself. |
No, a classic DCUM flaw is bumping very specific, timely threads, YEARS LATER to add nothing of value. |
I missed that. Stepping out now. |
And the cutoff to start K was probably end of November. It isn’t anymore. It’s Sept in most districts now. |
Wrong and dependent on area Numbskull |
This is a "thing" because this parent is trying to get their child in early to kindergarten. Your child went on time - because they were born before September 1, the cutoff date. This child was born Sept 3 - after the cutoff so they should go next year, making them basically 6 when a child born on August 30 would be barely 5. Personally, I always think children could use one more year, because school is so academic now, not play-based at all in kindergarten, so why push your child to do that a year early? |
Worst advice ever. |
The cut off is 9-1, with test in till 10-15. Crazy to be 18 all of senior year. |