Do we give niece 13th birthday gift AND bat mitzvah gift?
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Anonymous
Tell me you know nothing about this Jewish celebration without telling me you know nothing about this Jewish celebration. |
Anonymous
| I would. It’s sort of like asking if you’d give a bday and Christmas gift. |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
| Give 1 gift for both. |
Anonymous
| Get a nice birthday gift then throw ten bucks in the envelope for the mitzvah. |
Anonymous
| Just one gift is plenty. |
Anonymous
| I’d buy a gift gift for the Birthday and give a small check under10 bucks for the bat mixa. |
Anonymous
| I’d send a card with a small gift for the birthday and save the bulk of the money for the bat mitzvah gift. |
Anonymous
| No. |
Anonymous
| The bat mitzvah is the more important occasion and the gift amount should reflect that. As a parent, I’d be perfectly ok with the bat mitzvah card and gift that year. |
Anonymous
| The birthday is obviously the more important of the occasions and preferential treatment for gifts. |
Anonymous
| Never heard of bat mizvag so I’d give a birthday gift and let someone else deal with the other thing. |
Anonymous
| Aren't Bar/Bat Mitzvah's the religious celebration of turning 13? |
Anonymous
| There are some really weird trolls on this post |
Anonymous
| I give one gift. |