Rich girl

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Prestigious NGO, think tank, aid work, government where the work is niche and requires a high education to salary ratio.

Her “daddy” won’t let you touch the money though, which is why family trusts exist, so date only women you actually want on their own qualities.

If you want wealth and independence from families you need to date in the same professions you would find high-earning men; big- law, certain medical specialities, finance. Those women want equals so I hope you’re bringing something to the table.

This is hilarious. Also true - trust funder who works for an independent agency.

[Anonymous]

Try the fyre festival 2.

[Anonymous]

They will take YOU for all you’re worth !

[Anonymous]

High and dry, out of the rain
But you know it don’t matter anyway

[Anonymous]

Coachella

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Where can I find a rich girlfriend in the city? Or at least her daddy being rich?

Weight Watcher.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you have any idea what a low life you sound like asking this question?

You gotta be kidding. Women routinely ask the same question about men on a weekly basis in this form and they are berated like this. Get real.

[Anonymous]

If this were the 80s or 90s we'd tell you to get a job as a golf or tennis pro at a swanky country club. And to be real hot and drive at least a LeBaron convertible.

[Anonymous]

I’m rich and don’t rely on family money so it is my money. Either work in the professions a PP mentioned (finance, some medical fields etc) or get to know them doing things they do for leisure (eg personal trainer). Most women that earn a lot don’t particularly care if a guy they meet is also a high income earner as there is no need for financial support.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m rich and don’t rely on family money so it is my money. Either work in the professions a PP mentioned (finance, some medical fields etc) or get to know them doing things they do for leisure (eg personal trainer). Most women that earn a lot don’t particularly care if a guy they meet is also a high income earner as there is no need for financial support.

So I have a shot? Not the OP but I just got on Bumble and I see a lot of obviously well off women in the professions mentioned. More educated and higher earning than me from what I can deduce. I've been passing them up for the most part assuming they won't look at someone who isn't in their same socio/economic status. Am I wrong to do so? Should I give them a shot?

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Anonymous wrote:I’m rich and don’t rely on family money so it is my money. Either work in the professions a PP mentioned (finance, some medical fields etc) or get to know them doing things they do for leisure (eg personal trainer). Most women that earn a lot don’t particularly care if a guy they meet is also a high income earner as there is no need for financial support.

So I have a shot? Not the OP but I just got on Bumble and I see a lot of obviously well off women in the professions mentioned. More educated and higher earning than me from what I can deduce. I've been passing them up for the most part assuming they won't look at someone who isn't in their same socio/economic status. Am I wrong to do so? Should I give them a shot?

My current SO of the past several years is a lower earner and the DCUM crowd would be absolutely appalled at how little he has has saved for retirement, although he will have a pension. He’s able to pay his bills and pay his own way so I don’t need to support him (nor would I). He’s kind and funny and attractive and I adore him. I’m financially secure and like the PP indicated- that allows me to date men without consideration of their own financial situation. It’s incredibly freeing. As long as you are responsible with your money and take care of yourself you may be surprised by the wealth of the women who would be attracted to you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m rich and don’t rely on family money so it is my money. Either work in the professions a PP mentioned (finance, some medical fields etc) or get to know them doing things they do for leisure (eg personal trainer). Most women that earn a lot don’t particularly care if a guy they meet is also a high income earner as there is no need for financial support.

So I have a shot? Not the OP but I just got on Bumble and I see a lot of obviously well off women in the professions mentioned. More educated and higher earning than me from what I can deduce. I've been passing them up for the most part assuming they won't look at someone who isn't in their same socio/economic status. Am I wrong to do so? Should I give them a shot?

My current SO of the past several years is a lower earner and the DCUM crowd would be absolutely appalled at how little he has has saved for retirement, although he will have a pension. He’s able to pay his bills and pay his own way so I don’t need to support him (nor would I). He’s kind and funny and attractive and I adore him. I’m financially secure and like the PP indicated- that allows me to date men without consideration of their own financial situation. It’s incredibly freeing. As long as you are responsible with your money and take care of yourself you may be surprised by the wealth of the women who would be attracted to you.

How do you go about joint purchases/vacations? If you prefer a 5* hotel and he can afford a hiking trip, it would be very expensive for him to "pay his way in"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a rich girl but you’d never know it. And my money is protected in a trust I set up several years ago. Most people don’t know how rich I am because I’m not pretentious. And I can spot a gold digger a mile away.

Just curious - how rich are you?

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Anonymous wrote:I’m rich and don’t rely on family money so it is my money. Either work in the professions a PP mentioned (finance, some medical fields etc) or get to know them doing things they do for leisure (eg personal trainer). Most women that earn a lot don’t particularly care if a guy they meet is also a high income earner as there is no need for financial support.

So I have a shot? Not the OP but I just got on Bumble and I see a lot of obviously well off women in the professions mentioned. More educated and higher earning than me from what I can deduce. I've been passing them up for the most part assuming they won't look at someone who isn't in their same socio/economic status. Am I wrong to do so? Should I give them a shot?

My current SO of the past several years is a lower earner and the DCUM crowd would be absolutely appalled at how little he has has saved for retirement, although he will have a pension. He’s able to pay his bills and pay his own way so I don’t need to support him (nor would I). He’s kind and funny and attractive and I adore him. I’m financially secure and like the PP indicated- that allows me to date men without consideration of their own financial situation. It’s incredibly freeing. As long as you are responsible with your money and take care of yourself you may be surprised by the wealth of the women who would be attracted to you.

How do you go about joint purchases/vacations? If you prefer a 5* hotel and he can afford a hiking trip, it would be very expensive for him to "pay his way in"

Any ideas on that? Or you/the woman just pay for higher end things all the time?

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Anonymous wrote:I’m rich and don’t rely on family money so it is my money. Either work in the professions a PP mentioned (finance, some medical fields etc) or get to know them doing things they do for leisure (eg personal trainer). Most women that earn a lot don’t particularly care if a guy they meet is also a high income earner as there is no need for financial support.

So I have a shot? Not the OP but I just got on Bumble and I see a lot of obviously well off women in the professions mentioned. More educated and higher earning than me from what I can deduce. I've been passing them up for the most part assuming they won't look at someone who isn't in their same socio/economic status. Am I wrong to do so? Should I give them a shot?

My current SO of the past several years is a lower earner and the DCUM crowd would be absolutely appalled at how little he has has saved for retirement, although he will have a pension. He’s able to pay his bills and pay his own way so I don’t need to support him (nor would I). He’s kind and funny and attractive and I adore him. I’m financially secure and like the PP indicated- that allows me to date men without consideration of their own financial situation. It’s incredibly freeing. As long as you are responsible with your money and take care of yourself you may be surprised by the wealth of the women who would be attracted to you.

How do you go about joint purchases/vacations? If you prefer a 5* hotel and he can afford a hiking trip, it would be very expensive for him to "pay his way in"

I’d just pay for him.

I’m fully aware that very few men earn what I earn. Why refuse to date someone just because of their income. When you earn a lot, a high earning man becomes less attractive. As a pp said, it is freeing earning a lot of money when it comes to dating. I’m not after someone that would buy me expensive jewellery or bags or take me on expensive holidays. I have that already.