Does your spouse do chores without complaining?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes and no. I’ve noticed that he doesn’t like to do the things that have to be done over and over again like dishes and laundry and mowing the lawn and cleaning the bathroom. He does like to do “projects” though. So, he’s the guy in charge of putting together modular furniture or helping kids with the big report.

Classic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Too often one spouse believes what they think should be what gets done. They don't get to decide. Other spouse doesn't think a chore needs doing or doesn't think it needs to be done as often.

Ah, found the filthy pig DH (you’ll probably now claim to be a DW, but doubt it).

[Anonymous]

The better question would be: Does spouse handle chores without me nagging?

[Anonymous]

When he does, it's sort of fake-theatrical and funny. So, he's kind of complaining, but also kind of making a joke. Depends on my mood as to whether that ends up being annoying or entertaining.

[Anonymous]

Yes but I'm the planner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Too often one spouse believes what they think should be what gets done. They don't get to decide. Other spouse doesn't think a chore needs doing or doesn't think it needs to be done as often.

Ah, found the filthy pig DH (you’ll probably now claim to be a DW, but doubt it).

No, there’s no law on the books that says everyone has to it your way.

[Anonymous]

At the moment he does way more than I do. No complains. We are partners and chores are a mutual responsibility.