Good grief! |
Whats your problem with people wanting to show support? I would love it if someone send me a special box of chocolates if I were going through something so emotionally demanding |
I will happily accept a box of chocolate for any reason, at any time, or for no reason at all. |
100%. They must have missed the earlier post saying we all want gifts. |
I need support, will you send me gifts? |
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I would have just loved an “I’m thinking of you” card in the mail.
And after especially devastating news, I liked getting a massage. My body just felt so broken. It helped so much to have someone be nurturing with it. |
| My best friend sent me flowers with a sweet note out of the blue while I was going through IVF, and I was very touched. Anything to show you are thinking of her and acknowledging what she's going through will be much appreciated OP! |
| Jesus, please ignore all of these angry people - you are a very sweet friend to think of this. Some friends sent me some flowers and a card when I was doing IVF and it meant a lot to me, and helped me feel less alone during a difficult and isolating time. I think the sentiment matters far more than the specific gift, anything to let them know you are thinking of them will likely be much appreciated. |
What angry people? |
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For my friend’s first transfer at CCRM (had already had 2 failed cycles at a local clinic), I sent her an (inexpensive) moonstone necklace. The transfer worked, so she wore it for the transfer for her 2nd kid, too. The kids are 7 and 5. Now she wears it when she needs luck.
This is kind of hippy-dippy, but I got moonstone because is supposed to symbolize fertility. Also, we are very close had been talking about IF for years (I had 2 year old IVF twins when she had the first transfer & we knew each other’s IF sagas) - it wasn’t like we were acquaintances. |
Yes, it is hippy-dippy. |