Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I’d consider it cheating and would leave anyone who engaged in this.
I think there’s WAY too much potential for it to become addicting and interfere with people’s abilities to have normal relationships, something we’ve already seen happening because of porn and social media.
I also think it’s very sad that we’re viewing sex more and more as a resource that people (mostly men) consume, rather than a mutually pleasurable experience.
DH here. I have pretty low drive, my wife has very high. She also likes all kinds of fantasy stuff whereas I am plain vanilla. We have a great family, three little kids, are best friends. She bridges the desire gap with her occulus and various toys. I don’t care, I don’t consider it cheating, I’m the one she loves and wants to be married to.
You think I should divorce her over THIS?