Anonymous wrote:It did take a hit. OW was younger. I questioned what made her worth cheating with that I didn't have. It just took time mentally to understand that she didn't have anything special. It was a character flaw within the two of them that made them cheat.
I did find that I, too, could have cheated with way hotter guys if I chose (I didn't- I waited until after divorce). Turns out my spouse was absolutely nothing special in bed. There are guys WAY WAY more interesting to date, talk to, daydream about, and do a lot of um, exploring with.
I am starting to think that since younger women who aren't necessarily prettier or thinner than the actual wife or girlfriend of the guy just have the same maturity as the husband or boyfriend even if he is much older. That is what really brings them together.
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