This. 6 months to 2 years is often the worst (adolescent) phase for dogs. I am not sure you should get a dog at all. Or maybe get a chill older dog. Poodles and doodles tend to be high energy. Also, they are very smart which means they get bored easily, and that is often when the destructive behavior starts. Also, ignore that antiquated advice about keeping your dog holed up until all its shots. The bigger risk to your dog in a highly (dog) vaccinated area like this is lack of sufficient socialization. I think you need to do more research on puppies. |
| Are you even sure you can get a puppy right now vs 6 months? If you are getting a dog from a breeder, you sometimes have to wait. The decision might be made for you. I would determine what kind of dog you want, and then see how long it will take to actually get one. |
| Absolutely after. The kids can wait. Any progress you’ve made in training may be derailed by the change in environment. You’ll be packing and unpacking, so lots of opportunities for a puppy to get into trouble. You’ll have less time and attention for the puppy. I could probably go on. |
My thought is that either way you'll have an adolescent dog in a the new house. Can you bribe them to accept something else? Heartbroken seems like a pretty severe reaction. |