Would you travel across country twice in 1.5 weeks?
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Anonymous
| No it would be too much for us personally |
Anonymous
| No way. |
Anonymous
| Nope. If they wanted you there, they could have scheduled it during your visit. I wouldn't, for an engagement party. |
Anonymous
| Nope |
Anonymous
| When something like this came up, I just stayed for both events. It seemed easier. DH went back home and skipped the engagement party (shower in my case) and the kids had a hoot making the rounds among grandparents and extended family. |