S/O Men, Would You Hire a Gorgeous Male Nanny/Caretaker for Your Children?

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Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't care at all from a perspective of my wife sleeping with him, for two reasons. Women generally are attracted to power and a nanny isn't that. And I am not that paranoid about cheating, if she does then we deal with it.

I would be more Leary of a man wanting to be with little kids. Sorry, it's an awful stereotype. Same reason I don't allow my kids one on one with my kids


As the world changes, women are attracted to men who are in touch with their feminine side. Doesn’t mean he is feminine. But a nurturing, caring man is pretty hot especially if you aren’t getting that at home.


Yes! I think my sisters and I were even more attracted to the manny because he was SO GOOD with the kids. He would run around after them and play with them and be really gentle and you could just tell this kids loved and trusted him. He was very patient with them and just seemed so mature. It's very attractive. I assume men feel the same attraction when they see a very sweet woman who's amazing with kids, that's why "kindergarten teacher" is always a profession you see as the love interest of men in movies. It's something very primal. He was so sweet and good with them, and that combined with him being ripped, and always running around shirtless showing off his abs, was a lethal combination! We could never understand why the husband allowed him to be hired, he was so sexy.


There is nothing sexier than a hot or cute kindergarten teacher.

For men, your wife sleeping with a male nanny isn't threatening. I mean, if the idea of your wife having sex with someone else is just impossible to imagine then sure, but no woman is running off with the nanny.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't care at all from a perspective of my wife sleeping with him, for two reasons. Women generally are attracted to power and a nanny isn't that. And I am not that paranoid about cheating, if she does then we deal with it.

I would be more Leary of a man wanting to be with little kids. Sorry, it's an awful stereotype. Same reason I don't allow my kids one on one with my kids


As the world changes, women are attracted to men who are in touch with their feminine side. Doesn’t mean he is feminine. But a nurturing, caring man is pretty hot especially if you aren’t getting that at home.


Yes! I think my sisters and I were even more attracted to the manny because he was SO GOOD with the kids. He would run around after them and play with them and be really gentle and you could just tell this kids loved and trusted him. He was very patient with them and just seemed so mature. It's very attractive. I assume men feel the same attraction when they see a very sweet woman who's amazing with kids, that's why "kindergarten teacher" is always a profession you see as the love interest of men in movies. It's something very primal. He was so sweet and good with them, and that combined with him being ripped, and always running around shirtless showing off his abs, was a lethal combination! We could never understand why the husband allowed him to be hired, he was so sexy.


There is nothing sexier than a hot or cute kindergarten teacher.

For men, your wife sleeping with a male nanny isn't threatening. I mean, if the idea of your wife having sex with someone else is just impossible to imagine then sure, but no woman is running off with the nanny.


That's what men have been saying for years and then they act shocked and devastated when that exact scenario happens. If a woman has enough cash of her own, she might turn that fling into something long term.

They dont realize women have a lot of the same preferences men do: we like youth, good looks, a hot body, and kindness. It is a turn on. A man who's good with kids is--- WOW.
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Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't care at all from a perspective of my wife sleeping with him, for two reasons. Women generally are attracted to power and a nanny isn't that. And I am not that paranoid about cheating, if she does then we deal with it.

I would be more Leary of a man wanting to be with little kids. Sorry, it's an awful stereotype. Same reason I don't allow my kids one on one with my kids


Lol. Yes, that’s why women definitely never, ever sleep with the pool boy. Nope. Nothing to worry about, keep moving.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't care at all from a perspective of my wife sleeping with him, for two reasons. Women generally are attracted to power and a nanny isn't that. And I am not that paranoid about cheating, if she does then we deal with it.

I would be more Leary of a man wanting to be with little kids. Sorry, it's an awful stereotype. Same reason I don't allow my kids one on one with my kids


Lol. Yes, that’s why women definitely never, ever sleep with the pool boy. Nope. Nothing to worry about, keep moving.


+1. He straight up said he wouldnt care if his wife had sex with someone else as long as she didnt actually leave him. LOL. i guess low expectations?
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't care at all from a perspective of my wife sleeping with him, for two reasons. Women generally are attracted to power and a nanny isn't that. And I am not that paranoid about cheating, if she does then we deal with it.

I would be more Leary of a man wanting to be with little kids. Sorry, it's an awful stereotype. Same reason I don't allow my kids one on one with my kids


Lol. Yes, that’s why women definitely never, ever sleep with the pool boy. Nope. Nothing to worry about, keep moving.


+1. He straight up said he wouldnt care if his wife had sex with someone else as long as she didnt actually leave him. LOL. i guess low expectations?


And women never ever sleep with their yoga instructors, tennis pros, or hot but penniless bass players who work at the local coop.

You’re fine, PP. Carry on.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't care at all from a perspective of my wife sleeping with him, for two reasons. Women generally are attracted to power and a nanny isn't that. And I am not that paranoid about cheating, if she does then we deal with it.

I would be more Leary of a man wanting to be with little kids. Sorry, it's an awful stereotype. Same reason I don't allow my kids one on one with my kids


Lol. Yes, that’s why women definitely never, ever sleep with the pool boy. Nope. Nothing to worry about, keep moving.


+1. He straight up said he wouldnt care if his wife had sex with someone else as long as she didnt actually leave him. LOL. i guess low expectations?


And women never ever sleep with their yoga instructors, tennis pros, or hot but penniless bass players who work at the local coop.

You’re fine, PP. Carry on.


Exactly. but I guess the PP is fine as long as she just sleeps with him and doesnt actually leave him? That's what the young people call a cuck.

But anyway...
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't care at all from a perspective of my wife sleeping with him, for two reasons. Women generally are attracted to power and a nanny isn't that. And I am not that paranoid about cheating, if she does then we deal with it.

I would be more Leary of a man wanting to be with little kids. Sorry, it's an awful stereotype. Same reason I don't allow my kids one on one with my kids


Lol. Yes, that’s why women definitely never, ever sleep with the pool boy. Nope. Nothing to worry about, keep moving.


+1. He straight up said he wouldnt care if his wife had sex with someone else as long as she didnt actually leave him. LOL. i guess low expectations?


And women never ever sleep with their yoga instructors, tennis pros, or hot but penniless bass players who work at the local coop.

You’re fine, PP. Carry on.


Exactly. but I guess the PP is fine as long as she just sleeps with him and doesnt actually leave him? That's what the young people call a cuck.

But anyway...


PP you are a responding to. Yeah, perhaps I am different but I don't get that bent out of shape on the potential of my wife sleeping with someone else. Not a cuck. Perhaps because I have cheated and don't see it as a big deal. She ain't leaving with a nanny it a tennis pro because she would lose the gravy train.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't care at all from a perspective of my wife sleeping with him, for two reasons. Women generally are attracted to power and a nanny isn't that. And I am not that paranoid about cheating, if she does then we deal with it.

I would be more Leary of a man wanting to be with little kids. Sorry, it's an awful stereotype. Same reason I don't allow my kids one on one with my kids


Lol. Yes, that’s why women definitely never, ever sleep with the pool boy. Nope. Nothing to worry about, keep moving.


+1. He straight up said he wouldnt care if his wife had sex with someone else as long as she didnt actually leave him. LOL. i guess low expectations?


And women never ever sleep with their yoga instructors, tennis pros, or hot but penniless bass players who work at the local coop.

You’re fine, PP. Carry on.


Exactly. but I guess the PP is fine as long as she just sleeps with him and doesnt actually leave him? That's what the young people call a cuck.

But anyway...


PP you are a responding to. Yeah, perhaps I am different but I don't get that bent out of shape on the potential of my wife sleeping with someone else. Not a cuck. Perhaps because I have cheated and don't see it as a big deal. She ain't leaving with a nanny it a tennis pro because she would lose the gravy train.


Yeah that's like the definition of cuck. Anyway, at least you're okay with it. Just dont admit this preference to young men, they'd roast the hell out of you.
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Mine looked like a young Ben Affleck
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't care at all from a perspective of my wife sleeping with him, for two reasons. Women generally are attracted to power and a nanny isn't that. And I am not that paranoid about cheating, if she does then we deal with it.

I would be more Leary of a man wanting to be with little kids. Sorry, it's an awful stereotype. Same reason I don't allow my kids one on one with my kids


Lol. Yes, that’s why women definitely never, ever sleep with the pool boy. Nope. Nothing to worry about, keep moving.


+1. He straight up said he wouldnt care if his wife had sex with someone else as long as she didnt actually leave him. LOL. i guess low expectations?


And women never ever sleep with their yoga instructors, tennis pros, or hot but penniless bass players who work at the local coop.

You’re fine, PP. Carry on.


Exactly. but I guess the PP is fine as long as she just sleeps with him and doesnt actually leave him? That's what the young people call a cuck.

But anyway...


PP you are a responding to. Yeah, perhaps I am different but I don't get that bent out of shape on the potential of my wife sleeping with someone else. Not a cuck. Perhaps because I have cheated and don't see it as a big deal. She ain't leaving with a nanny it a tennis pro because she would lose the gravy train.


Yeah that's like the definition of cuck. Anyway, at least you're okay with it. Just dont admit this preference to young men, they'd roast the hell out of you.


Oh, ok

I thought a cuck was someone who got off on the sexual humiliation of their wife sleeping with someone else. Maybe the kids use it different now.

Whatever the term is for "been married so long, would be totally happy if we could both sleep with others" is me. Thought it was just poly but kids call it cuck now. Good to know
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't care at all from a perspective of my wife sleeping with him, for two reasons. Women generally are attracted to power and a nanny isn't that. And I am not that paranoid about cheating, if she does then we deal with it.

I would be more Leary of a man wanting to be with little kids. Sorry, it's an awful stereotype. Same reason I don't allow my kids one on one with my kids


Lol. Yes, that’s why women definitely never, ever sleep with the pool boy. Nope. Nothing to worry about, keep moving.


+1. He straight up said he wouldnt care if his wife had sex with someone else as long as she didnt actually leave him. LOL. i guess low expectations?


And women never ever sleep with their yoga instructors, tennis pros, or hot but penniless bass players who work at the local coop.

You’re fine, PP. Carry on.


Exactly. but I guess the PP is fine as long as she just sleeps with him and doesnt actually leave him? That's what the young people call a cuck.

But anyway...


PP you are a responding to. Yeah, perhaps I am different but I don't get that bent out of shape on the potential of my wife sleeping with someone else. Not a cuck. Perhaps because I have cheated and don't see it as a big deal. She ain't leaving with a nanny it a tennis pro because she would lose the gravy train.


Yeah that's like the definition of cuck. Anyway, at least you're okay with it. Just dont admit this preference to young men, they'd roast the hell out of you.


Oh, ok

I thought a cuck was someone who got off on the sexual humiliation of their wife sleeping with someone else. Maybe the kids use it different now.

Whatever the term is for "been married so long, would be totally happy if we could both sleep with others" is me. Thought it was just poly but kids call it cuck now. Good to know



yep, that's basically what it means.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't care at all from a perspective of my wife sleeping with him, for two reasons. Women generally are attracted to power and a nanny isn't that. And I am not that paranoid about cheating, if she does then we deal with it.

I would be more Leary of a man wanting to be with little kids. Sorry, it's an awful stereotype. Same reason I don't allow my kids one on one with my kids


As the world changes, women are attracted to men who are in touch with their feminine side. Doesn’t mean he is feminine. But a nurturing, caring man is pretty hot especially if you aren’t getting that at home.


Yes! I think my sisters and I were even more attracted to the manny because he was SO GOOD with the kids. He would run around after them and play with them and be really gentle and you could just tell this kids loved and trusted him. He was very patient with them and just seemed so mature. It's very attractive. I assume men feel the same attraction when they see a very sweet woman who's amazing with kids, that's why "kindergarten teacher" is always a profession you see as the love interest of men in movies. It's something very primal. He was so sweet and good with them, and that combined with him being ripped, and always running around shirtless showing off his abs, was a lethal combination! We could never understand why the husband allowed him to be hired, he was so sexy.


There is nothing sexier than a hot or cute kindergarten teacher.

For men, your wife sleeping with a male nanny isn't threatening. I mean, if the idea of your wife having sex with someone else is just impossible to imagine then sure, but no woman is running off with the nanny.

+1
There is a male kindergarten teacher at the school who is absolutely GORGEOUS. I think all the moms dream of running away with him and having his babies The way he takes care of kids, combined with his muscles that bulge out of his button down, is... wow.
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Pretending that you can’t tell when a man is attractive is inane. It’s ok to notice that folks of any gender are attractive
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