Silicon Valley mom arrested for hosting sex and drinking parties for her teen sons

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

The hard looking face, Its always the weird looking one.

ugly woman inside AND out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know a mom kinda like this but she has girls.

+1

Me too. Sad.

[Anonymous]

If we ever needed a reminder that you should never take anything on social media at face value, it’s this from the daily beast article:

“ While O’Connor’s public Facebook photos depict her as a doting mother devoted to her family, parents in Los Gatos described her in the same terms one would a deviant sexual predator.”

I hope this woman is held accountable. Those poor kids!

[Anonymous]

May I make an obvious point? I have a 14yo and there is no way in hell he’d be attending parties like this in the first place.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:May I make an obvious point? I have a 14yo and there is no way in hell he’d be attending parties like this in the first place.

Yeah- that’s a good point. I wonder what she told the parents.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:May I make an obvious point? I have a 14yo and there is no way in hell he’d be attending parties like this in the first place.

Yeah- that’s a good point. I wonder what she told the parents.

Well I’m sure you guys read about how she helped the kids sneak out, but yes, parents need to be careful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:May I make an obvious point? I have a 14yo and there is no way in hell he’d be attending parties like this in the first place.

I very seriously doubt the parents knew their kids were attending parties "like this". Kids aren't always honest about where they are going. Let's keep the blame on this woman and not the parents of the victims.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:May I make an obvious point? I have a 14yo and there is no way in hell he’d be attending parties like this in the first place.

I very seriously doubt the parents knew their kids were attending parties "like this". Kids aren't always honest about where they are going. Let's keep the blame on this woman and not the parents of the victims.

OK, but only to a point. If you're 14 year old is sneaking out with a friend's mother to go to a party, you have relationship issue with your child that started long before this did.

[Anonymous]

your 14 YO

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:May I make an obvious point? I have a 14yo and there is no way in hell he’d be attending parties like this in the first place.

I very seriously doubt the parents knew their kids were attending parties "like this". Kids aren't always honest about where they are going. Let's keep the blame on this woman and not the parents of the victims.

OK, but only to a point. If you're 14 year old is sneaking out with a friend's mother to go to a party, you have relationship issue with your child that started long before this did.

NP. Ok, so maybe she chose specific kids to be a part of it based on the kids’ home life. Criminals who abuse minors usually have targets. Not sure what point you’re trying to make other than blaming the parents. This woman sexually abused kids and encouraged them to sexually assault each other. She is the one to blame here.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:May I make an obvious point? I have a 14yo and there is no way in hell he’d be attending parties like this in the first place.

I very seriously doubt the parents knew their kids were attending parties "like this". Kids aren't always honest about where they are going. Let's keep the blame on this woman and not the parents of the victims.

OK, but only to a point. If you're 14 year old is sneaking out with a friend's mother to go to a party, you have relationship issue with your child that started long before this did.

+ 1

Also, pandemic and HS/MS course load. My kids have a community of friends and their parents that would absolutely tell me. Why? Because we don't shoot the messenger and our kids know that other parents are encouraged to share concerns.