stres incontinence

[Anonymous]

Ok, here I am 4 kids later at age 45 and I am fed up with the stress incontinence. It has gotten worse with every delivery, but now my youngest is almost 4 and its just not improving. No, I have not faithfully done kegals this time but I'm not sure that I'm not beyond that. I wear depends pads every day, all the time, b/c a sneeze, cough, laugh, lifting or even squatting can cause a large enough leak that I would leak thru. When I am sick and coughing all the time, I needs many, many pads and have honestly considered just wearing the pants (!!!)

Anyone else BTDT?

[Anonymous]

I'm not where you are but I do wear a pad every day, just to be safe. It sucks, I hear ya. I worry about what will happen when I'm older. I seem to have stress AND urge incontinence. Yikes. I hate it.