what info to share on kids' activity calendar

[Anonymous]

What type of info do you share on a kids' activity calendar? The judge ruled that i must share a calendar by the first of every month but i'm not sure what to put on the calendar and what not to include. Advice?

[Anonymous]

I'd probably put all school events, doctor visits, extracurricular classes, birthday parties, etc., scheduled playdates and any trips that were planned. That's the kind of stuff I share with my ex voluntarily. (we're lucky to have a 99% good relationship.) I also share things I've found that I think he might want to do with our daughter, like events at Jammin Java or special museum stuff. And I'd probably mark any days when I absolutely needed him to take (or not take) our child, if it was off-schedule. What would you want him to share with you?

If your ex is a d-bag, then you could probably be less detailed and just share school events, classes he's signed up for and doctor's visits, plus trips.