O time ... but no time

[Anonymous]

Sorry everyone, I posted some time ago mentioning how timing seems to always be off near that special, precious few days ... So, here I am again, having to travel someplace for an obligation, and our schedule is extremely tiring (long drive, arriving late, early next day, etc). I'm already a nervous/anxious person, and all this certainly does not help me relax. I wish I could totally chill out and, especially considering this is my "peak" time, just focus on nothing else. Is this just happening to me (?)

[Anonymous]

... I guess I should have said instead, "Is this happening *just* to me (?)"

[Anonymous]

Nope, I'm also nervous and it makes it harder to destress and to get in the mood just knowing it's O time. Other stuff being piled on made it mega hard.

I found ambien (for insomnia) and wine (for everything else) was a pretty good combination in the end. 15 wks along now...

[Anonymous]

It happens to many people. It's also annoying when my husband seems to be always in the mood when I am on my period and not so enthusiastic during my fertile time.

[Anonymous]

OP here ...Congrats, 16:45, that you're now on your way ...

PP, that does sound annoying, and I can imagine it is. My husband and I just had an argument related to the current travel plan, so that of course also helps put everyone in a good mood all around.

[Anonymous]

Feeling like a failure to have missed another window due to work/travel obligations. Hopefully on a next chance the priorities can be managed better and time can be on our (my) side.