Gift for someone who won't accept payment

Anonymous
I just had a baby, and our wonderful dog walker, who is also a good friend, watched our dog for almost a week while we were getting settled. I do pay her to walk the dog daily as well. Normally when we go out of town and she watches the dog I pay her $50 a night. This time she told me that she wanted to watch the dog as a friend and not as business and wouldn't allow me to pay her. I would like to acknowledge her kindness with a gift of some sort as well as a thank you note.
Her birthday is coming up, and I would normally get her a gift. Should I get something extra? Should it be what I would normally give, plus the amount I would have paid her to watch the dog? Is that insulting? Or just spend the normal amount plus something extra, maybe half (or more, or less)??
Thank you.
Anonymous
That was really nice of her! I wouldn't focus so much on how much extra you spend on her gift, but more on whether there's something special you know she would like.
Anonymous
I wouldn't spend a ton on the gift, since that's almost ungrateful--it negates the gift she tried to give. I would just try to think of something really special/personal to show that you put some extra thought into it.
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