How can I marry a rich guy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How do you marry a rich guy? Be hot.

Or also rich or particularly accomplished and impressive in your own right

Rich guy already has dough. Hot is enough.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It takes money to make money. Invest in yourself, girl.
Get a boob job, and show off the new assets.

Bad idea. Big fake boobs are for hookups. A wealthy guy would be embarrassed to be seen socially with someone who looks like that. He’s not going to marry you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We stay to our own, meaning we feel comfortable with others like us, and we tend to date friends of our friends or people in the same circles. I met my husband at a DAR function my family chaired. I was introduced properly and found he had friends in my circles. We understand each other. Fore example, do you know how to run a household? Manage the staff? Get your children into the right preschool and school? Do you know where to find a driver, chef, the perfect summer camp in upstate NY for the kids? Keeping a house pretty and looking pretty is not enough. Are you cultured? Do you have knowledge of living overseas? A global entry card? You must at least have two leisure homes, because what will you do if he wants to weekend with you? You definitely are not going to stay in and get takeout. Stick to your own and be happy.

You are spending your time posting on DCUM. You are not especially cultured, and you definitely ain’t special.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How do you marry a rich guy? Be hot.

Or also rich or particularly accomplished and impressive in your own right

Rich guy already has dough. Hot is enough.

pp said OR not and. Although I do think older guys often go for just hot. Lots of younger guys marry plain looking women from similar backgrounds. For op, though, that ship has sailed.

[Anonymous]

Pick an expensive zip code, rent and join the pool club membership.
Attention the parties or join a country club!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It takes money to make money. Invest in yourself, girl.
Get a boob job, and show off the new assets.

Bad idea. Big fake boobs are for hookups. A wealthy guy would be embarrassed to be seen socially with someone who looks like that. He’s not going to marry you.

Don't follow this person's advice. .en are visual. Look hot, you will land yourself a rich guy and likely get married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Pick an expensive zip code, rent and join the pool club membership.
Attention the parties or join a country club!

Don’t forget to be hot!

[Anonymous]

Don’t forget to be continuously impressed and supportive of Rich Man, feed the ego

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It takes money to make money. Invest in yourself, girl.
Get a boob job, and show off the new assets.

Bad idea. Big fake boobs are for hookups. A wealthy guy would be embarrassed to be seen socially with someone who looks like that. He’s not going to marry you.

This is actually true for the majority. They want someone that their family and friends will respect, not make fun of behind their back.

PP it only does the opposite.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I do not make good money due to poor decision making regarding my college major and subsequent work in the non-profit sector. I am not particularly ambitious or talented at climbing the corporate ladder so I always knew I wanted to marry a rich guy so I can have a better quality of life. The problem is, I can’t seem to attract well-to-do men. All my boyfriends have been the free-spirited, artistically inclined. One was trained as an engineer but preferred to work as a fitness instructor and the other had a graduate degree in liberal arts but was starting his own business.

I know what I want. I want someone ambitious and no nonsense who wants a comfortable upper middle class life. I want to be his wife and raise our kids while happily working a less stressful job or working on my passion projects.

What do I bring to the table?

I’m reasonably pretty, nice and a good home maker. I also love children and sex. I am in my mid thirties.

Please help!

Lol, that cat is out of the bag. You should readjust your expectations or else you'll be unhappy the rest of your life.

[Anonymous]

Move to a nicer area. Learn to play golf, and join upper scale clubs. Make sure your English and speaking skills are excellent. Also, make new friends that can put you into contact with eligible men.
Definitely dress for taste. Don't buy many designer brands because that equals tacky. You could also join a singles professional dating club.

If you are far right or left in your politics I would move to the middle, and give a middle of the road vibe. You want to be stable to attract stable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I do not make good money due to poor decision making regarding my college major and subsequent work in the non-profit sector. I am not particularly ambitious or talented at climbing the corporate ladder so I always knew I wanted to marry a rich guy so I can have a better quality of life. The problem is, I can’t seem to attract well-to-do men. All my boyfriends have been the free-spirited, artistically inclined. One was trained as an engineer but preferred to work as a fitness instructor and the other had a graduate degree in liberal arts but was starting his own business.

I know what I want. I want someone ambitious and no nonsense who wants a comfortable upper middle class life. I want to be his wife and raise our kids while happily working a less stressful job or working on my passion projects.

What do I bring to the table?

I’m reasonably pretty, nice and a good home maker. I also love children and sex. I am in my mid thirties.

Please help!

Lol, that cat is out of the bag. You should readjust your expectations or else you'll be unhappy the rest of your life.

That's not true at all. Describes many females which is just fine. She at least knows what she wants. My family is wealthy and all the women tend to be like her. All the men want homemakers, but I sense she'll need to be more conservative. If her boyfriends were free-spirited she may also be that way. Time for a makeover perhaps. OP you made the big mistake of wasting years with guys that were not marriage material. Only date those that want to get married and have good careers. They don't have to be rich because you both can build a lot quite fast. My first rich husband I ended up divorcing and remarried. Oddly we have more money then he had. He died, and I found out from his current wife his dad lost a lot of the wealth when the bubble burst. My ex took over. He was bad with money, then died a few years ago. While I am able to stay home his widow has to work so you never know.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It takes money to make money. Invest in yourself, girl.
Get a boob job, and show off the new assets.

Bad idea. Big fake boobs are for hookups. A wealthy guy would be embarrassed to be seen socially with someone who looks like that. He’s not going to marry you.

Don't follow this person's advice. .en are visual. Look hot, you will land yourself a rich guy and likely get married.

I’m the PP. Notice that I never said don’t look hot. I said don’t get a boob job — that’s a trashy kind of “hot.” You should definitely do yoga, be thin and meticulous about grooming. Wear makeup, tasteful clothes and have a toned body. The wealthy wives I’ve met are universally thin, fit and very well put together. Boob jobs are for APs and girlfriends you’ll never marry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Move to a nicer area. Learn to play golf, and join upper scale clubs. Make sure your English and speaking skills are excellent. Also, make new friends that can put you into contact with eligible men.
Definitely dress for taste. Don't buy many designer brands because that equals tacky. You could also join a singles professional dating club.

If you are far right or left in your politics I would move to the middle, and give a middle of the road vibe. You want to be stable to attract stable.

And above all be hot.

[Anonymous]

This is easy. All you need to do is follow a few simple steps:

1) Never, under any circumstance, should you kiss on the lips. It is too intimate.
2) Get yourself a new wardrobe. Include a variety of frocks that can be worn to events such as high-class dinners and polo matches (don't forget sensible shoes for divot stomping).
3) Learn how to properly knot a men's necktie.
4) Find a well-educated, jovial concierge to teach you the proper order of using silver in fine dining situations.

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