Anonymous wrote:
This far and you're the first MV parent to ask this question. Hmmmmmmmm.
S/he is only the first to post the question publicly. I suspect s/he is more of an optimist or more of a glutton for punishment than many of the rest of us. I am a founding family at MV and have two children there. I -- like many others at MV and other schools -- have been around long enough to know that those who frequent these boards aren't the stuff of our community. So I, more often than not, choose to lurk rather than participate on MV topics in the interest of not feeding the troll. I suspect those even wiser and busier than me choose to skip these boards altogether. Rather than waste time (which, admittedly I'm doing here) on vagaries and rumors posted on these anonymous boards, committed families volunteer to speak directly with admitted families. I've attended open houses for admitted families and answered hundreds of questions over the years. I've emailed back and forth with prospective families; I've taken phone calls. I tell the truth - warts and all. MV isn't perfect, by any stretch. But it's a wonderful school for those families whose children are compatible with expeditionary learning, who want to do an immersion program, and who have an interest in sustainability. If you're worried about panhandling (which, I've not seen a single time on P St in nearly a year of drop off and pick ups on foot and on bike) and hiring full-time security guards, you're simply not going to get many committed MV families to take the bait. Or if you're worried that you didn't get the proper face-time with the principal during the tour conducted during school hours, then, yeah, your priorities might be a bit out of whack. The school, of course, cares about admitted families, but other priorities like dealing with budget shortfalls that affect students, buildings, and staff and possibly other events took precedence. Deal with it, find your information from another source, or move on. I'd bet my last dollar that the tour guide would have provided email or phone numbers for volunteer parents to answer any lingering questions. I know for a fact that the woman who gave the tour is well-spoken, highly knowledgeable, kind, compassionate, and bilingual, and is both a dedicated staff member and founding family. I know her personally and was within earshot of much of one of the tours last week that she conducted as I was there for a separate meeting. To the reasonable observer, she displayed the qualities listed, and was not underwhelming. Her main fault seems to be she wasn't Dahlia or Kristin.
So, to the point, the lack of response on these boards is indicative of nothing more than that many families know better than to engage in the back and forth on these forums. I know better, but took the bait anyway. Likely to my dismay. But if one admitted family thinks twice about the bullshit on these boards, then I guess it wasn't entirely for naught. The rest of you can feed off the herd and believe that MV parents are all unfortunate, self-entitled saps. I'll raise my glass with and to those unfortunate saps any day of the week and twice on Sunday.