If you think this is true, you are deluded. Look up the current circumcision rates published by the CDC. Your son will be in the minority. |
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If only I could be from the northeast and be educated, I could understand and have nice things. |
The irony is that you didn't make any choice at all. You blindly followed a cultural tradition, supported by extreme bias and lots of myth. This is why we who are against routine infant circumcision, would call you uneducated about this topic. (for what it's worth, I'm not the one who started the whole north-east part of the debate). There are many functions of the foreskin, but for discussion sake, I always ask those who claim to have researched the issue to name just five. You say you cannot name five; can you name even one? Do you know anything at all about the intact anatomy of a boy? Are you aware of ANY of the risks associated with circumcision, and about how often they occur? Are you aware of any of the treatments for some typical problems that might occur with the intact penis? People who actually research the issue learn that there are valuable functions, that there is a complex anatomy (ie, it's not "just a flap of skin"), and that the risks can and do include death of the baby. And, the more common risks (ashesions, skin bridges, scarring, buried penis, revisions, etc.) will occur at a GREATER rate than all problems combined of intact penises. They also learn that the rare problems associated with the foreskin can almost always be avoided by proper care (no one should ever retract the foreskin) and simple medicines (ie, antibiotics if a bacterial infection occurs -- just like you would give a girl antibiotics for a genital infection). Again, I ask you, why the foreskin? Can you answer why? Do you believe it is that much more likely to cause the boy trouble than any other body part? Do you believe it is just expendable? I would guess that your honest answer is more along the lines of "well, it's just what we do." Which, as time goes on and information is more readily available, is a completely unacceptable answer for amputating part of a newborn baby's healthy, functioning, genitalia. |
There have been a few crazy sounding posts on the anti-circ side here, but most have actually been pretty well reasoned and calm, although passionate about the issue, which concerns the welfare of children. On the other hand, few good arguments have been made in favor of it, except for references to the questionable health benefits, but mostly it was along the lines of "what I do with my child's penis is none of your business and I don't want to hear anything you have to say". Finally, there were a fair number of posts on the pro-circ side who relied on attempts at derision and insult, but mostly sounded like they were drunk. So, I guess there are crazies on either side, but the most vocal anti-circ posters came across as well-informed and reasonable. |
Agree that few of the pro-circ posts actually contained any facts -- most relied on peer-pressure style insults.
I'm pro-vaccination and anti-circumcision because I read peer-reviewed research. Not peer-pressure posts. ![]() |
If you think the anti-circ posts here have come across as "well-informed and reasonable" I shudder to think of the people you encounter on a day-to-day basis. You sound like a bunch of crazy people to me. |
And here goes another attempt at a peer-pressure style insult... Seriously, have you people no arguments? I mean, based on peer-reviewed research? |
Good lord, PP at 10:47. Since you don't seem to understand the definition of "peer pressure," here's what it actually is: when a poster comes on a forum and asks the following question:
"My baby will be 14 days old. Will he be fussy the rest of the day, or days following? Could he catch a fever? What sort of post care did you take for your baby?" - she is attacked by you and your fellow band of idiots decrying this perfectly acceptable (maybe not by you, but by American physicians) medical procedure. You don't like it? Don't do it. But it has literally NO EFFECT on your child or you. So shut it. |
Because you agree with them. As a pro-circ poster, I thought that anti-circ posters were nuts. They were throwing around words like "mutiliation" and "child abuse" and "ignorant." That's just insulting people for the sake of feeling smug. And the lady who was crying over the fate of some else's kid's dick? Not rational. |
You've repeatedly directed to peer reviewed research. You don't want to accept it, so you ignore it. |
Don't be cute. I'm arguing that they are culturally biased against circing boys, even if it does have health benefits, because their culture has a long history of not circing. |
You sound astonishing ignorant. The only thing more horrifying than knowing that you have children is that someone with your limited intellectual capacity has the power to make such an important and irreversible decision for another human being. |
Excellent points made. Of course, it will be ignored by those who don't want to face the reality that they may have made the wrong choice. |
I'm an earlier poster who hasn't yet made the "wrong choice" and I still think you're an idiot. So it's not just parents who are defending their past decisions that disagree with you here. |