This doesn't solve the problem of it being 5pm on a Monday and not having enough timers to start the meet. |
Maybe the move is to purchase electronic timers. Charge the parents and tell them they no longer have to volunteer. |
As a parent who picked summer swim in part because of the valuable opportunity for me to show my kids how teamwork works, but mostly because it’s what I can afford, this doesn’t seem like a solution. If you want to pay a lot of money for your kid to do an activity with no involvement from you, go for it! There are so many options for camps and other programs that do just that. As someone who can’t afford those options, I am not asking they change to accommodate me. All I am asking is that you don’t demand that the activity that works for my family change for you. |
That’s interesting, and I had not thought about volunteer demographics until you wrote this. Our team’s highest level volunteers (reps and officials) are largely GenX, with some older millennials woven in. We are a big (but not huge) top division team, and the officials/reps are mostly older than 45 years old. |
This is exactly the situation on our team too. There is a volunteer requirement but if you don’t meet it, you get an email asking you to volunteer. So there are families who just never bother. Coupled with the fact that there is an “in group” of parents who run everything and make others feel like they are not wanted or welcome, and there’s no motivation to volunteer. We’re about to start our 15th season on the team and we’ve gone from volunteering at every meet to getting our required hours in and moving on. |
| Because my child is the swimmer. I am not. I have many other things to do. |
So you drop your child at the meet and then leave to attend to the many other things you have to do? No, I’m guessing you’re there watching your child swim but feel like you are too important to help out. In case you were wondering, you are the a$$ h0le. |
Calling people names? And you wonder why parents don’t want to volunteer. |
When you tell people that you’re too important to deign to volunteer expect others to call you out on who and what you are. News flash, you aren’t that important. |
Were you not aware that signing your child up for swimming came with a volunteer component? Do you just not care? I knew what my responsibility was before kids were signed up for anything. As a single mom working full time I didn't always have the capacity for volunteering. Ds didn't do those activities. I wasn't about to dump my responsibility on someone else. Op, the PP is a good example of why you can't get enough volunteers. Those expectations need to be made clear at registration. X number of hours doing "these" activities, per child. |
| The PP is the reason we will not allow a kid to continue on the team if the parents continually refuse to volunteer. The PPs attitude is also the reason I care not at all if that policy punishes the kid. |
Sure. Just don't put your kids in activities that need parent volunteers. |
Absolutely. Same here. |
What do you do during the meets? |
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No volunteer. No swim. Easy.
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