| It’s not that hard PP. Just order the first 5 books in a series from the library and pick them up when they come in. Don’t complicate things. If your daughter loses interest because she might have to wait for a book, I feel sorry for you. My kids didn’t know any other way and they survived. So will yours. |
Omg. Agree. Our public library is a huge PIA. Items I put on hold take several weeks to come in. The shortest turn around I’ve had was 2 weeks. |
Maybe immigrant parents. But the American middle class parents of to 70s-90s were not involved much. I was maybe read picture books as a preschooler. But no one was checking on my homework, helping me study for tests, or teaching me anything at all academic at home, ever. I came home to an empty house, let myself in, prepped dinner on occasion, and watched TV until parents got home. That was pretty much what everyone I knew did as well. We never went to the public library either. The only books I had were the ones I checked out from our school library- which was frequently, I feel like we went twice per week, whole class, and could ask to go in between with a pass. Most public schools don’t even have functional libraries where kids can check out books at least weekly. There was no Kumon and RSM centers. We all went on to college, some of us very good colleges. |
Exactly. Parents were never that involved. And the kids turned out fine. Families were bigger, parents were working, and the public schools did their job with very little parental oversight. What changed? Why are parents required to pick up all the slack because schools aren’t getting it done? I send my kids to private school because it’s the only thing that resembles what a public school education used to look like decades ago. It’s not that the parents are different, something else is going on. |
It started with the push for the inclusive classrooms and when disciplinary actions loosened up significantly in the name of equity. Classrooms started having too many kids that were incapable of meeting grade level requirements and/or had significant behavioral problems. This made it impossible for teacher to teach entire class the material required at the pace required to complete. Then EdTech comes along and at least makes the kids not annoying the teachers all day to the same extent and takes the burden off the teacher of having to teach the material. But again- no one is learning much, but at least teachers are happier they have a little more classroom control and less work. |
Do you really think kids turn out fine who cannot read and write and do basic math? |
Oh, and our local library is practically a homeless shelter now too. Bedbug outbreaks and all |
35. Went to school in the late 90s early 00s. My parents both worked full-time. One of them 2+ jobs most of my childhood. They still sat down and made sure I didn’t come out another mediocre number. I speak 4 languages. I’m endorsed in 5 subject areas. I’m an immigrant. What’s your excuse? |
| The standards are significantly higher now than they used to be. Students are expected to know certain things at the beginning of kindergarten that I was never expected to know. We learned it AT school. Now kids are behind from the very beginning. |
They can’t do these things NOW because the schools aren’t teaching them and don’t do assignments like giving the class the same whole chapter book as assigned reading. They COULD do those things in the Boomer-Gen X- most of the Millennial era. Even with minimal parental involvement. The difference is the lower quality of the schools these days and they want parents to pick up all the slack. |
Might be true someplace. Not true compared with the different place and time where and when I grew up. |
The huge change was social promotion for everyone, and NCLB shifting the focus from the entire classroom to the bottom kids. The two together ruined public schools for everyone. In the past, if a kid fell much below grade level, the kid had to repeat the grade. Kids who didn't want to be held back tried harder to pass. Parents who didn't want their kid to fail the grade actually sent the kid to school, so truancy wasn't nearly as bad. Teachers didn't have such a span of abilities in the same classroom, so it was easier for them to differentiate for everyone. Nowadays, social promotion means that many kids have little incentive to learn or even show up to school. The kids who are above average and eager to learn get little time with the teacher, since teachers have to focus on the kids who are struggling. NCLB doesn't incentivize schools to spend any time with kids who would easily pass the state tests, so they're ignored. |
Lol. That explains it. My excuse for what? I went to public schools back when they were decent and I send my kids to private because public schools can’t educate kids anymore. |
I asked Google AI what percentage of 4th graders have a smartphone and the answer shocked me: Pew research found 30% have a phone, while another study indicates 42% of American kids have a phone by age 10. 10 year old students are not reading in the USA; rather: they are becoming addicted to the dopamine hit of social media by age 10. |
So the kids come home from school, having not learned much, and parents are supposed to spend the next few hours teaching their kids, but phones are to blame? A lot of public schools don't assign much or any homework. In the 70s and 80s we came home and watched hours and hours of TV. We weren't doing workbooks, tutoring, or sitting with our parents at the kitchen table reading outloud together. Something else has changed. It's not just the presence of phones. |