My kid has a very diverse group of friends at bama, including two who are first generation Americans. And I’ve spoken with black moms at campus events who explained why their daughters opted for black sororities: it’s a legacy and networking thing they prefer…not because the white sororities aren’t welcoming. If you know black professionals who were in black sororities, then you would understand why they prefer sticking with their sorority. |
Ok…what does that have to do with day-to-day life at the school? It’s not Pepperdine which is across the street from one of the best beaches in the country…or even UCLA which is 5 miles from Santa Monica. The reason I guess they need to make these trips is because the school isn’t located in a particularly exciting place. |
Because you'd have to spend 4 years in Alabama, and that is more than enough of a reason to just say no |
Can someone explain what you mean by academic freedom in Alabama vs any other state?
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Same experience. Visited on a whim, no expectation and was blown away. DS is now a senior there and he leaves with two publications in serious science journals, a job offer, a diverse world view and having enjoyed every minute of his time there (he is not Greek). His friends are headed to top med schools, engineering firms and phd programs. All educated for free! Alabama is spending like crazy and has healthy financials, unlike many — Stanford (laying off 700), Northwestern (laying off 400), Chicago is $6 billion in debt! |
It is nice to hear that parents are friendly and helpful.
I had a similar experience at a very small college in MA for my child. My child got stranded with her roommates at the local Target on day one (apparently the shuttle service stops running at a certain hour) and a parent I had met through FB just happened to be there and drove them back to campus. A few weeks later, she moved into a different room and I reached out on a town FB page to try to get her a couple items. People were so helpful and offered her everything she needed and more. One woman basically adopted my daughter and brought her soup, candy, etc when she was sick and even helped her when she had a laundry mishap. I was so grateful for how kind and helpful they were to a student far from home. Just saying that you can find kind people everywhere. |
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The school has a 4 year graduation rate of 56% that is horrifying. Graduates from the University of Alabama had a median earning of $37,400 within two years and $44,500 within six years of graduation. Great idea to pay OOS tuition to a school with those types of returns on investment. Rape is extremely high on campus. And just fantastic Alabama law that, requires sexual violence survivors to demonstrate "earnest resistance" during an assault. It is also one of the most dangerous campuses in the US for crime. |
The students make their own fun. There are music venues and fun bars all over town. One of my kid’s fraternity brothers brought a boat to school for fishing. Lots of kids golf and intramural sports are big (for everyone). My kid went to a pool party over the weekend. Plenty to do on campus/in the area, but weekend trips to other areas are really fun. |
The reality is smart kids will do well wherever they go. Your bright kid from Dcumlandia is likely to get merit aid from Bama and will graduate in 4 years. What the other kids do isn’t your problem. Sometimes it’s better to be the big fish in the small pond. |
You just described hundreds of colleges…and many like U Miami, UCLA, Pepperdine, U San Diego…we can go on…where the beach is next door and your weekend trip options are infinitely better. The conversation is going strangely sideways. |
Why are the majority of students at a state school not state residents? |
And you are who your friends are. 56% graduation rate. There's a reason why they're throwing tons of merit money to practically anyone. Their marketing is all about how fun the school is, how great the greek life is, etc. Smart parents and kids make choices that look beyond that. |
Because even the people of Alabama don't want to go there. |
Because there's not as much money in admitting in state students. North Carolina has the right approach here. |