Copied this response I posted earlier and gonna paste it every time someone makes the stupid argument above: “OMG, you people are absurd. If this is your mindset, you should never have bought a house in the first place – think of how many years of potential expenses you are giving up by making that $180K down payment. Oh, and everyone should always have a car payment—you want to keep that $30K liquid in the event that you’re laid off! GMAFB, you weirdos.” |
Wouldn’t paying off the mortgage mean you couldn’t keep the full inheritance in the case of divorce (and if you die first it might be trickier to have the money go directly to your kids if that is what you want). I am not that worried about divorce, but if I die first I want my inheritance in a trust for my kids that is controlled by my brother. That way my husband can remarry and not worry about his new wife trying to get that money. I am keeping the money very separate for that reason. |
That's a good point for discussion. An aspect that hasn't been considered up to now. |
It's $150k out of $2 million. Just pay it off and stop worrying about every penny. |
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If you are down to 150K it is nearly all principal anyhow.
My mortgage I actually got a low rate in 2017 as put a lot down and had good credit so did not refinance. Already in 2025 just 8 years later you see each month Principal becoming a larger and larger part of each monthly payment meaning the low interest rate is worth less and less each month. Right now banks still have CDs higher my interest rate. But if interest rates fall again I might as well just pay it off at some point. My mortgage is at 3.6 percent. |
You should divorce now if you don't trust your husband. |
That's not a low mortgage. I would pay off the balance so then you can invest after its paid off. |
Pay it down and recast. |
I trust my husband but crazy things happen. He could develop dementia in 20 years and someone could take advantage of him. Other things could happen. Many people keep inheritance money separator that reason. |
| If you can earn at a higher rate than your interest rate on your mortgage, then invest your money and don’t rush to pay off the mortgage. |
It is a Freddie loan and they dont do recasting. I rather just pay off mortgage then take monthly payment amount and put it into stocks each month and dollar cost average in. Or just make a lump sum towards principal to speed up final pay off. I did 140K towards it in 2021 that pulled my 2047 mortgage pay off to a 2037 mortgage pay off. If CD rates fall again I will just as they roll over knock down the mortgage bit by bit. |
Agree with PP who inherited. No way I'm giving away a dime of inheritance to charity. My taxes pay for social programs, that's it. No more. |
Hey you don't have to justify anything you are correct. That money is yours I don't care if you have been married for 100 years. Keep it separate. YOU-NEVER-KNOW. He could leave you for a much younger woman and take with him half that inheritance. I wish we men had the same prudent mindset that women have. |
If you are too lazy and stupid to manage mortgage payments, you deserve to stay poor. |
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Paying off a mortgage is only freeing if you overspent on your house and the mortgage is a burden. My mortgage isn’t a burden. I could pay off the balance if I needed to. My life insurance from my employer would cover it. It’s an absolute pleasure to pay my mortgage every month because it’s only 2.75% and the asset is worth 40% more than I paid for it.
On the other hand, if I didn’t have a large amount of assets and the mortgage was a large % of my take home, I’d be pretty nervous. That’s why I bought a house well under my means. If you inherit 2M, your remaining mortgage is not a major factor. I see no reason to give up a small amount of very affordable leverage. Use your 2M to begin compounding and just take on appropriate risk with the right asset mix. |