PP whose kid doesn’t know what those programs are, I’m an NP who also has a kid in the Blair magnet who not only didn’t prep but doesn’t know what those programs are. I guess we should be very proud that our kids got in based only on their hard work and not parental pressure and outside tutoring? |
My magnet kid tells me how fearful his friends are of getting a “bad” grade (anything below 100%) because their parents will yell at them. The pressure these parents put on their kids is unreal. |
+1 RMIB parent. We bought some prep books from Amazon that I think also the library has. That was about it. They did one practice exam and that was it. We have never gotten outside tutoring, ever. We are not originally from this area, and I had never heard of Kumon till we moved here. |
The truth is there are plenty of kids who don't use these programs, but there's a core group at *every* high performing school that does. Includes Wooton, Whitman, Churchill, BCC and privates. My impression was there is a higher percentage of prepped kids at RMIB v Blair when my children were there. My take was that you could be naturally great at math but it's harder to be naturally great at everything. The RMIB kids my child was mostly friends with were friends before RMIB because they met at those prep programs. They are a diverse group but mostly white. |
Do you really think the kids who went to those programs did not do hard work? Many of the kids we know who did not do outside tutoring have parents who have STEM jobs and taught them themselves. I'm not sure why it makes such a difference to you and why you would be more "proud" if a child did not go to the programs. My child did not attend these programs but her friends who went to them are the hardest working in the magnet and the most successful over the two years she has been there. |
One of the RMIB teachers told us it's because there's a decent percentage of duplicate admits for Blair and RMIB. A huge percentage of the kids who get into Blair turn RMIB down while it happens the other way around it's more rare. RMIB is a great school. I have a child who really enjoyed their time there but's the most boring of all the magnets. |
I think that it’s a much bigger achievement for a kid without all that extra help through tutoring and outside programs to get in to a magnet than a kid who got in due to considerable extra help. Surely that’s obvious? |
So help me understand.. why does this type of comparison matter so much to you (and many others on these threads)? Both types of kids worked hard and should be commended for their efforts.. Or are you suggesting that it's a much bigger achievement NOT to work hard at something? ![]() |
In my DD’s school, 5 kids got multiple offer chose RMIB, 2 kids chose Blair |
They are both impressive, but think of it this way... Two kids who are great at basketball both play in the same league: one has to practice several hours per day; the other practices for one hour a week. Most people would say that the latter kid is much more talented than the former. |
? how is it more "boring"? That's not what my DC at RMIB told me. DC had a friend at Blair magnet, and they said RMIB students seem more fun. YMMV obviously from year to year. |
It matters only because some posters here claim that all kids in these programs are there because they gamed the system. It’s not true. And yes it is a bigger achievement to have been selected without additional help and privileges. |
125/1000 and 100/800 |
Those numbers are places, not offers. What’s key here is the number of offers. |
My DD said this year around 40% freshmen are Asians, when we tour the Blair, it's like 80%+ Asians |