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If they say they’ll show up at 11am to buy something and don’t respond when you ping them at 11:30 to ask if they still plan to purchase and ask for their ETA, when do you just move on?
I’m not interested in waiting around any longer. PS - two other buyers for other items showed up exactly on time earlier today. |
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"when do you just move on?"
Whenever I feel like it on that particular day. |
| Now. A 1/2 past without an "sorry I'm running late" text is an a hole move. Move onto the next buyer. |
| All items are first come first serve. Never wait on FB or Craigslist for anyone. People are too flaky. |
| I give it 45 minutes just because I known a lot of people won’t text and drive, and technology can be flaky. |
How do you handle the logistics? Give multiple people your address? |
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Depends on what it is. If it is furniture that is hard to get rid of, I will give them more time.
If it's something small and I meet at a public place, I move on if they don't text me after 30 min. I never meet anyone anywhere other than a place of my choosing. Gas prices are high and I don't meet anywhere that is more than 5 miles from home. I only leave for the place after I get an ETA from them. I message them an hour before to confirm. No time for flaky people. Sometimes it's a pain because the next buyer buys something else and you're stuck with your item and have to wait for someone else to show interest. |
| I send one last message, “It is 30 mins past our agreed on meeting time and since you didn’t show I am now moving on.” |
When I got rid of furniture I told them I will message them if the first person was a no show. I was giving away stuff for free though. So the address is given one at a time. |
| If 10 minutes late, I text. I *might* try again at 20-30 minutes. After that, I go on with my plans for the day and re-list the item. |