Would you?

[Anonymous]

Would you still choose to have kids if you need they’d have special needs?

[Anonymous]

Depends which kid? My spacey kid with ADHD inattentive and well managed anxiety? Yes

My kid who died at 10 of a very painful degenerative auto inflammatory condition? No. While I loved him and loved being his mom, no child should live through that.

[Anonymous]

Do you have a child with special needs, OP? If so, what is your answer.

[Anonymous]

Depends how severe like PP said.
My adhd kid, yes totally. It’s manageable.

I had a friend with a child with full trisomy 18. She was needed around the clock care and died at 11. I wouldn’t wish that pain on any parent.
Not all SN are the same..

[Anonymous]

Yes but if I could have the same kid with a different husband I would switch.