Annoying!

[Anonymous]

When my kid’s Significant other is in town, she drops off the radar. (Not a new relationship)

I find that immature and annoying . There are lots of things going in right now that I need to discuss with her, but she won’t respond to texts. 😤

[Anonymous]

Young love. What can you do. Instead of being miffed, you should expect it and make alternate arrangements.

[Anonymous]

Like what?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When my kid’s Significant other is in town, she drops off the radar. (Not a new relationship)

I find that immature and annoying . There are lots of things going in right now that I need to discuss with her, but she won’t respond to texts. 😤

She's getting plowed three times a day. I'm sure she's in a sex, nap, eat, sex, nap eat cycle.

[Anonymous]

Grow up and leave her alone.

[Anonymous]

You need to get your own life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You need to get your own life.

+100. This is such a whiny post complete with crying emoji I have no doubt DD has solid reasons for wanting some space. Is probably getting a million texts about things she has assessed are inconsequential.

[Anonymous]

Well I am trying to do stuff for her. And her special event and our upcoming international trip. I think parents should have a way to reach their own child.

She is 26 years old.

I am really over this.

They want to be treated like adults, so should step up and act that way.

(And those of you who are snarkily judgemental are off base. But I guess being smug somehow feels good to you.)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You need to get your own life.

+100. This is such a whiny post complete with crying emoji I have no doubt DD has solid reasons for wanting some space. Is probably getting a million texts about things she has assessed are inconsequential.

Put on your reading glasses. It is not a crying emoji.

[Anonymous]

You sound like one of those emotional vampires who suddenly invent a million reasons to get a loved one's attention, right when they're busy with someone else, just because you can't bear to be second fiddle.

That's a mental illness. I know it well, because my mother has it. I decided to move to a different continent.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well I am trying to do stuff for her. And her special event and our upcoming international trip. I think parents should have a way to reach their own child.

She is 26 years old.

I am really over this.

They want to be treated like adults, so should step up and act that way.

(And those of you who are snarkily judgemental are off base. But I guess being smug somehow feels good to you.)

Sounds like she doesn't want the things you are so desperately trying to do "for her."

You have a way to reach her. Just not at the moment you want to be able to reach her.

[Anonymous]

She’ll get back to you. Just leave her alone while her SO is visiting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You sound like one of those emotional vampires who suddenly invent a million reasons to get a loved one's attention, right when they're busy with someone else, just because you can't bear to be second fiddle.

That's a mental illness. I know it well, because my mother has it. I decided to move to a different continent.

Oh, the drama. Your mother is an “emotional vampire?”

Sounds like you need mental health treatment PP. (and maybe stay off Reddit)

[Anonymous]

If you are paying for the vacation, stop it. She’s 26.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you are paying for the vacation, stop it. She’s 26.

And a full time student.

Maybe hold off on judging.

Consider kindness.

Happy Mother’s Day.