If an online date says you're photogenic?

[Anonymous]

So I had my first online date and I'm over 30 and I get a lot of matches but I never had the bravery to meet someone offline or the time sometimes, but I met up with a guy after he persisted for months and it was a great date. Ended with a full tongue on kiss that I didn't expect. He looked better in his pictures because he was skinnier in person which isn't a bad thing but I wasn't expecting it. So he tells me that like a week later that I'm very photogenic because he wants more pictures. So I'm wondering is that a bad thing? Because does that mean that I don't look as good in person? I said that he was too and he said no.

[Anonymous]

He wants naked pictures, is what it means.

[Anonymous]

Do not send him nude photos.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He wants naked pictures, is what it means.

+1. Pervert alert.

Don’t you find it odd that he asked for photos before he asked for a second date, OP? He wants to exploit you not date you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He wants naked pictures, is what it means.

+1. Pervert alert.

Don’t you find it odd that he asked for photos before he asked for a second date, OP? He wants to exploit you not date you.

Yes he was clearly horny when he asked for more pictures. He wants a second date but he also lives a few hours away. We have exchanged pictures before meeting though some sexy ones too but never nude. I just thought it odd he said I was very photogenic a week after meeting me but that could also be my insecurity kicking in.

[Anonymous]

I see no reason for someone who is practically a stranger to want your photo(s).

I also don’t like the fact that this guy wore you down, when you were less than enthusiastic about meeting him.

Sounds dangerous. I would cut him off, and for sure not send photos.

(But I am cautious)

[Anonymous]

Crazy to send sexy photos to someone you had never met.

But I am of another generation.

Tread carefully.

[Anonymous]

You are on an anonymous online forum, none of us hear can relate to having ever been referred to as being photogenic.

[Anonymous]

Do not give a guy you just met photos. Or you'll be doing ai porn on the internet in no time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He wants naked pictures, is what it means.

+1. Pervert alert.

Don’t you find it odd that he asked for photos before he asked for a second date, OP? He wants to exploit you not date you.

Yes he was clearly horny when he asked for more pictures. He wants a second date but he also lives a few hours away. We have exchanged pictures before meeting though some sexy ones too but never nude. I just thought it odd he said I was very photogenic a week after meeting me but that could also be my insecurity kicking in.

Why is your first online date ever with a guy who lives hours away??? Why are you sharing sexy pictures with a stranger you’ve never met and you’ve also never been on an online date before? Yes your insecurity and lack of confidence is a problem but you have a bigger lack of self-preservation instinct problem!

This guy is no bueno. I know it took a lot of courage to get on the apps and you should be proud of that! But take a pause to love yourself. One random comment from a random man from online shouldn’t make you question your own worth/beauty/literally anything. Use this guy as practice to build up your self-respect. Just say no. To your insecurities and to him. There are plenty of other matches in the sea.

[Anonymous]

He's not saying you didn't look as good as your photos ... he's trying to flatter you into sending photos. Certain kinds of photos. As others have already pointed out.

[Anonymous]

Why are you online dating if you refuse to actually meet up with people? I date men, but people like you give OLD a bad rap.

[Anonymous]

Omg hes a perv

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He wants naked pictures, is what it means.

+1. Pervert alert.

Don’t you find it odd that he asked for photos before he asked for a second date, OP? He wants to exploit you not date you.

Yes he was clearly horny when he asked for more pictures. He wants a second date but he also lives a few hours away. We have exchanged pictures before meeting though some sexy ones too but never nude. I just thought it odd he said I was very photogenic a week after meeting me but that could also be my insecurity kicking in.

How are you 30+ sending men you haven’t even met sexy photos,

[Anonymous]

You