Do parents stay for scouts?

Anonymous
My 9yo child is in a Girl Scout troop and every meeting and outing all parents stay. For Cub Scouts, it was mostly drop off or carpooling. This may have had to do with our own family conflicts.
Anonymous
Must depend on the troop. Parents never stayed in our Brownie troop. Then we moved and the leaders of the new troop (Juniors) said they were going to try having parents not stay that year, so I guess parents had been staying previously.
Anonymous
Parents always stayed for Cub scouts in my kids troop.
Anonymous
I don't know about Girl Scouts, never had a daughter.

At my Cub Scouts pack, parents were asked to stay through K and 1st grade. After that, parents were welcome to stay (and many did), but we only needed 2 adults for each event so it was ok if some dropped off. By 4th grade most parents dropped off.

Except for the first pocketknife lesson in 3rd grade. I asked EVERY parent to stay for that one.
Anonymous
A parent or two will stay to help and keep the adult:kid ratio good, but most leave.
Anonymous
We ask parents to stay for Cub Scout events. Helps with discipline.
Anonymous
Parents need to stay the whole time for cubs. Families camp together.

Scouts for older kids is troop dependent. But generally it’s drop off most of the time but need to stay for one meeting a month when the parents have a meeting.
Anonymous
I thought it was required for cub scouts for parents to stay. In our troop it was.

In GS it is very weird of parents to stay. That is actively discouraged especially for kids that age, unless the child has a special need that the parent is helping with. GS puts a big premium on girls learning to be independent.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Parents always stayed for Cub scouts in my kids troop.


+1 ours too
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:We ask parents to stay for Cub Scout events. Helps with discipline.


What age though?

We are a third grade troop and every parent stays.
Anonymous
Are your meetings in a church or at someone's home?

My kids have always had meetings after school, so parents just pick up afterwards (or some kids go to aftercare).
Anonymous
At Girl Scouts, parents don’t usually stay. After Covid, we had to tell parents not to stay.
Anonymous
I have B/G twins in late elementary. For us, parents generally stay for Cub Scouts but not for GS.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I thought it was required for cub scouts for parents to stay. In our troop it was.

In GS it is very weird of parents to stay. That is actively discouraged especially for kids that age, unless the child has a special need that the parent is helping with. GS puts a big premium on girls learning to be independent.


Yes they were very upfront that this was now a parent/child program. Not because they thought it would be more fun but because of all the scandals.
Anonymous
My daughter did girl scouts (Daisy through silver award), and I didn't stay
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