Don't Like My Siblings

[Anonymous]

I really don't like my siblings. They're not nice people. I'm always on DCUM discouraging posters from cutting off relatives but I really don't think I will have anything to do with them once our remaining parent passes away. They're crazy in a way only found in our family and make me feel like shit.

That is all.

[Anonymous]

Sending hugs and I hope you have built a supportive chosen family.

It is okay. It is also sad.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sending hugs and I hope you have built a supportive chosen family.

It is okay. It is also sad.

Thank you so much. This is not the response I was expecting.

[Anonymous]

Ive always disliked the notion that you have to be involved with your family because they are your family. If someone is toxic or makes your life worse, you shouldn't feel obligated to keep them in your life.

[Anonymous]

One of my sisters is manipulative. Also a love-bomber.

She always likes to accuse me of not liking family. No. I don't like her. I don't want to spend time with HER.

It's like she's forgotten the times she's accused me of all sorts of things, disregarded confidentiality, called me selfish for moving away to go to grad school, and liked to send me texts about all my negative qualities.

[Anonymous]

Join the club.

[Anonymous]

Same. They treat me like crap

[Anonymous]

Who does?

[Anonymous]

Haven't spoken with my only sibling in about 4 years, and it is, tbh, good riddance.

I've never liked her and she's never liked me. Even as children we had no use for one another.

[Anonymous]

If you get into a car accident and go into hospital most likely it is your siblings who will be there first unless you are married with children.
Don’t burn the bridge.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you get into a car accident and go into hospital most likely it is your siblings who will be there first unless you are married with children.
Don’t burn the bridge.

Ha, this is a far cry from reality for a lot of us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Same. They treat me like crap

Same here.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Haven't spoken with my only sibling in about 4 years, and it is, tbh, good riddance.

I've never liked her and she's never liked me. Even as children we had no use for one another.

Ha. Same here. Wish it were otherwise, but it's just not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you get into a car accident and go into hospital most likely it is your siblings who will be there first unless you are married with children.
Don’t burn the bridge.

My sibling would probably tell the hospital “I told her not to drive after 5pm on a Saturday. That’s what she gets.” And would not come.

And even if they did come, fine, that’s just being a human if I had no one else.

[Anonymous]

I don't speak to mine. They're literally crazy and dishonest.