Not much to offer, but lonely. Should I try OLD?

[Anonymous]

I’m a divorced f with a busy job, not much time off, and can’t take more time off. Maybe an element of presenteeism. But when I’m off, I feel a bit lonely. I have a dog and a few close friends, but not much energy to socialize. I think a decent, funny gentleman to go on a few dates with could be fun?

Divorced, otherwise stable, but a little bit lonely people, what’s your experience?

[Anonymous]

I would look for activities to do with other people. Maybe that’s hiking, knitting, protesting ICE, whatever.

[Anonymous]

When I was in that boat 2 years ago, I put myself out there and did some TimeLeft dinners and actually really enjoyed it. Its a bunch of others in the same boat for whatever reason.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you can meet somebody at the dog park.

[Anonymous]

Better off out in the wild than on OLD these days. No need to add disappointed to lonely.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would look for activities to do with other people. Maybe that’s hiking, knitting, protesting ICE, whatever.

[Anonymous]

Work on things that add to what you offer.

[Anonymous]

How old are you, OP? That would decide a lot on what is available out there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would look for activities to do with other people. Maybe that’s hiking, knitting, protesting ICE, whatever.

Protesting ICE?? LOL

[Anonymous]

Protesting ICE.

Pros: you will meet men. Strong alpha men. Powerful men who will physically subjugate you.

Cons: you may not survive your first date.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would look for activities to do with other people. Maybe that’s hiking, knitting, protesting ICE, whatever.

Agree with this advice.

Some women like sex too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would look for activities to do with other people. Maybe that’s hiking, knitting, protesting ICE, whatever.

I would try to stay as far away as possible from any ICE agents.

For obvious reasons.

[Anonymous]

Why do you feel you don't have much to offer? You sound like a normal person.
I have not had much success finding a genuine match using OLD, but I have had several nice coffees/happy hours with guys that consisted of pleasant enough conversation. I'm not sorry I met them, just don't feel like there was a connection.

[Anonymous]

Do you mean you don't have a lot to offer in terms of time? Can you elaborate? Are you a kind interesting person?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a divorced f with a busy job, not much time off, and can’t take more time off. Maybe an element of presenteeism. But when I’m off, I feel a bit lonely. I have a dog and a few close friends, but not much energy to socialize. I think a decent, funny gentleman to go on a few dates with could be fun?

Divorced, otherwise stable, but a little bit lonely people, what’s your experience?

Are you fat? If not, it’ll be a good way to find hook ups. No self respecting man worth anything will use OLD to find a real relationship.