Female CIS Infidelity why!?!

[Anonymous]

It was simple. It started the night you did not want my overture.

You don’t want me? Who might? Of course. Plenty of guys.

The door opened, and the cat left.

My point - women hold a ton of identity in their sexuality and if you rob them of it, they will naturally stray.

Prove me wrong.

[Anonymous]

… and it works the same way for men.

[Anonymous]

Puke.

"You didn't value me so I had to cheat on you" is the most pathological projection possible. If someone doesn't value you, want what you're offering, and/or give you what you need, LEAVE. Using "I didn't get my way" as an excuse to cheat isn't the logical flow there, it's a disordered way of thinking you're entitled to things you're not, and a pathological need for immediate gratification of your own wants, even at the expense of your integrity.

Absolutely pathetic behavior, regardless of the gender/genitals of the person indulging in it.

[Anonymous]

So, just leave. Don't be scum and cheat.

[Anonymous]

People with morals and integrity don't act this way. They aren't swayed by how others treat them, but know that they are responsible for their own behavior.

[Anonymous]

I hope you're under the age of 23 because this is extremely childish thinking.

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry, what? A guy turned you down once so you cheated? I mean, good lord, being that upset over your partner turning you down for sex once is beyond bonkers.

Also if you're unhappy in a relationship, just break up. Seriously. I don't know why this is hard for people.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Puke.

"You didn't value me so I had to cheat on you" is the most pathological projection possible. If someone doesn't value you, want what you're offering, and/or give you what you need, LEAVE. Using "I didn't get my way" as an excuse to cheat isn't the logical flow there, it's a disordered way of thinking you're entitled to things you're not, and a pathological need for immediate gratification of your own wants, even at the expense of your integrity.

Absolutely pathetic behavior, regardless of the gender/genitals of the person indulging in it.

This 100%

[Anonymous]

So many +1’s above. Cheating indicates a lack of integrity, self respect and confidence.

[Anonymous]

Hmm. I'm always amused by the virtue-signaling on DCUM. Live and let live, OP. You take what you want and you pay for it. I invite you to cogitate on the latter part of the sentence.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hmm. I'm always amused by the virtue-signaling on DCUM. Live and let live, OP. You take what you want and you pay for it. I invite you to cogitate on the latter part of the sentence.

Taking morality out of it, getting so worked up because one time someone "did not want my overture" is a recipe for just never having a relationship. There is pretty much no one out there who will have to say no to sex sometimes. Tired, sick, busy, has to work early, etc. Even the most Barney Stinson type will say no sometimes. Getting enraged over that is nuts.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hmm. I'm always amused by the virtue-signaling on DCUM. Live and let live, OP. You take what you want and you pay for it. I invite you to cogitate on the latter part of the sentence.

Taking morality out of it, getting so worked up because one time someone "did not want my overture" is a recipe for just never having a relationship. There is pretty much no one out there who will have to say no to sex sometimes. Tired, sick, busy, has to work early, etc. Even the most Barney Stinson type will say no sometimes. Getting enraged over that is nuts.

True. PP you replied to. But I'd say that's the least of OP's problems