Helping Adult Children get Career Counseling

[Anonymous]

I have a 30 year old son that is struggling to find his way.

he has 4 year degree in international relations but was unable to find a job with that degree. he now has a job in a credit union doing phone calls for collections.

he would like to be a credit analyst but not sure what is the best path, a certificate, or a second 4 year degree, or something in between.

can anyone recommend where he can get help with this decision?

wish I had family or friend that I could go to but do not.

[Anonymous]

Definitely not another 4 year degree. Figure out what classes are actually needed and take those.

[Anonymous]

What kind of credit analyst? Home loans and personal lending? Commercial lending? PE IB M&A? He would need significant finance courses for the latter. For the first two he could probably take a few courses in Banking Credit Underwriting and Lending. I think these roles are heavily impacted by ai though for a while credit has been extended via algorithms and decisioning made by machines (think of all the pre approved credit card offers you get in the mail) so do some research.

From international relations to call center to credit? that is a meandering ‘I don’t know who I am or what my talents are’ path. Get him a coach or point him back to his alumni career center.

[Anonymous]

You posted about this a while ago. Have you implemented any of that advice?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have a 30 year old son that is struggling to find his way.

he has 4 year degree in international relations but was unable to find a job with that degree. he now has a job in a credit union doing phone calls for collections.

he would like to be a credit analyst but not sure what is the best path, a certificate, or a second 4 year degree, or something in between.

can anyone recommend where he can get help with this decision?

wish I had family or friend that I could go to but do not.

Dude. ChatGPT it. Then use GROK, CLAUDE, GEMINI. Ask them what questions you should be asking and then hop from AI to AI, and fine tune your prompts.

Then do more research. Ask for fact checks and reliable and respected sources of information. Ask from different perspectives.

[Anonymous]

I have a 30 year old son that is struggling to find his way.

he has 4 year degree in international relations but was unable to find a job with that degree. he now has a job in a credit union doing phone calls for collections.

he would like to be a credit analyst but not sure what is the best path, a certificate, or a second 4 year degree, or something in between.

can anyone recommend where he can get help with this decision?

wish I had family or friend that I could go to but do not.


It sounds like your son is in a tough spot, but it’s great that he has the self-awareness to want to move in a different direction. Deciding how to pivot from one career field to another can be tricky, but there are definitely some options for him to explore. Here's how I’d approach it:

1. Explore Career Counseling and Guidance

Many universities, even after graduation, offer career counseling services. Even if your son isn't actively attending school anymore, they often provide alumni services. He could also look for career coaching specifically for people transitioning careers—sometimes these are available through professional organizations or online platforms.

2. Certifications and Courses for Credit Analysts

If he’s set on becoming a credit analyst, he might not need another full 4-year degree. Instead, some certifications or short programs can be a good fit:

CFA (Chartered Financial Analyst): This is a well-regarded certification for finance and investment roles, and it could help him break into the credit analyst role. It is quite a commitment, but he can start with Level I and see if it's the right fit.

Financial Analyst Certification: Programs like the FMVA (Financial Modeling & Valuation Analyst) or other finance-related certifications can help him build practical skills more quickly and specifically.

Online courses: Websites like Coursera, LinkedIn Learning, or Udemy offer courses in credit analysis, financial modeling, and other relevant topics. This could give him an affordable, flexible option to build his expertise without committing to a full degree.

3. Networking and Mentorship

Networking is critical in career transitions, and it sounds like your son could benefit from connecting with others in the credit and finance field. He could:

LinkedIn: Reach out to professionals in roles he’s interested in (credit analysts, financial analysts) and ask if they’d be willing to chat about their career paths. Some people enjoy offering advice to newcomers.

Professional Associations: Groups like the Association for Financial Professionals (AFP) or the CFA Institute often offer networking events, mentorship programs, or even job boards.

Local Meetups/Events: He can also look for finance or credit analysis meetups, webinars, or conferences in his area. These can help build connections and expose him to different career paths.

4. Leverage His Current Job

If he’s already working in a credit union, that can actually be a huge advantage. He’s in the financial industry already and may be able to use his current position as a stepping stone:

He could express interest in moving into credit analysis with his supervisors. Since he’s already working in the financial sector, he might have opportunities to gain experience with internal projects or mentoring.

Sometimes companies offer tuition assistance or support for further education or certifications. It would be worth asking about that to help fund his transition.

5. Job Shadowing and Internships

Although it might feel like a step back, a short-term internship or job shadowing could be a great way to see if credit analysis is the right fit for him. Many internships are available even for mid-career professionals and could give him hands-on experience without the full commitment of another degree.

Since it sounds like you don’t have a close network for support, it could help for your son to make connections through the above avenues. Seeking mentorship or career advice doesn’t always have to come from family—it can come from industry experts or people who have already walked the path.

Would your son be interested in any of these paths? Or maybe looking into a specific certification? Let me know if you'd like me to provide more details on any of these options!

- ChatGPT

[Anonymous]

Look up the national career development association. They should have a listing of providers near you. Also call alumni relations of his college/university to see if they have career resources for alumni.

Look here: https://corporatefinanceinstitute.com/resources/career/credit-analyst-role/

Also look on LI for these roles or people doing them and ask for an informational interview. A lot will say no but some will say yes!