Don’t like partners natural scent

[Anonymous]

If everything else was great, but you didn’t like your partners natural scent, would you marry them? By natural scent I mean like how they smell when a little sweaty.

[Anonymous]

I have sons, and I don't like the smell of any of the men in the house. Sweaty men always smell bad to me.

[Anonymous]

Nope. I love the way my DH smells except for when he is getting "sick". He has an autoimmune condition, and I tell him when he needs to get labs done outside of his normal lab draws because his levels are increasing and he needs a medication change if increased sleep for a few days doesnt help. I know they are high because he smells a certain way and I hate it.
I cant imagine not liking the natural smell of the person you spend your life with.

There are some people who can even smell cancer or Parkinsons. Olfactory distaste for a partner means something isnt compatible.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If everything else was great, but you didn’t like your partners natural scent, would you marry them? By natural scent I mean like how they smell when a little sweaty.

There are so many solutions for that. "Body odor is affected by skin bacteria breaking down sweat, influenced by diet (garlic, onions, red meat), medications, stress, hormones (puberty, menopause), infections, exercise, and health issues like diabetes or kidney/liver disease, all impacting the sweat's composition or the bacteria's activity, leading to changes in smell."

[Anonymous]

I broke up with someone in college because their natural scent was so off putting to me - I found it made everything else about them off putting.

No, in my experience I couldn’t marry someone whose natural scent I found off putting

[Anonymous]

My sense of smell is particularly strong so I could not be with someone who stunk.

[Anonymous]

Alcohol also messes up body odor.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Alcohol also messes up body odor.

Yep. I loved how my late husband smelled until he became an alcoholic and then it was repulsive. I would not be with anyone whose natural smell I don't love.

[Anonymous]

I think you should like your partner's smell. You're going to be smelling them for a loooong time.

[Anonymous]

How often are they a little sweaty?
And how intolerable is it?

I guess bad enough to ask about it


I don't think anyone smells good sweaty so hopefully people look after their hygiene.

Maybe it's a general hygiene issue?

Hygiene is a reason to break up.

Truthfully you can break up for any reason.

Anecdotally, I became very sensitive to smells in my late 30s premenopausal and migraines.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nope. I love the way my DH smells except for when he is getting "sick". He has an autoimmune condition, and I tell him when he needs to get labs done outside of his normal lab draws because his levels are increasing and he needs a medication change if increased sleep for a few days doesnt help. I know they are high because he smells a certain way and I hate it.
I cant imagine not liking the natural smell of the person you spend your life with.

There are some people who can even smell cancer or Parkinsons. Olfactory distaste for a partner means something isnt compatible.

This is very interesting to me so you mind saying which autoimmune disease? I have one and am wondering if my scent changes as well.

[Anonymous]

It's a dealbreaker.

This is your body telling you you aren't compatible. Not even kidding.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nope. I love the way my DH smells except for when he is getting "sick". He has an autoimmune condition, and I tell him when he needs to get labs done outside of his normal lab draws because his levels are increasing and he needs a medication change if increased sleep for a few days doesnt help. I know they are high because he smells a certain way and I hate it.
I cant imagine not liking the natural smell of the person you spend your life with.

There are some people who can even smell cancer or Parkinsons. Olfactory distaste for a partner means something isnt compatible.

Same except my DH does not have the same serious issues as this person’s DH. Love his smell even when sweaty. When he smells “off” I know he’s getting ill.

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately, I do not care for DH's natural scent and it's a major issue for me. He'd always made an effort to smell great prior to getting married and then personal care interest fell off gradually over many years of marriage. He is well aware that smell is very important to me and I've given him plenty of colognes (that he claims to like) over the years, but he can't be bothered to wear them. Or he remembers once in a blue moon and thinks that will cause me to suddenly swoon.

[Anonymous]

No