Below $100k salary with no debt vs
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Anonymous
| ... $200k with large student and some credit card debt and needy family, which one would you date? |
Anonymous
| First one |
Anonymous
| To he clear, which of these woman would you date? |
Anonymous
| Maybe look at what kind of person they are? Is this an arranged marriage? |
Anonymous
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That needy family will be there for a long time.
Should not have credit card debt making $200k. $200k job lost is harder than $100k job lost. Which lady is nicer? |
Anonymous
No. Just random early stage dating. |
Anonymous
Both of them are nice at this point and 7/10 level looks. |
Anonymous
How do you know their financial situation this soon? Weird . |
Anonymous
| Neither of those facts/situations would come into play. |
Anonymous
| $100k |
Anonymous
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Neither.
$100K doesn't go far in DC and I'm not about to make a needy family my problem. If it were just a reasonable amount of student and cc debt, fine, you can get through that at $200K no problem. Dating (hopefully) leads to marriage and marriage leads to shared income. I'm not sending half of my income to your parents every month because they're bad with money. |
Anonymous
Oh. I'm a man in this scenario? Am I making more than $100K? Because if I were a man, I wouldn't care if my gf made less. As long as it was like, $80-95K and not $40K. |
Anonymous
Women are more materialistic than men? |
Anonymous
| First one. She can make more in the future if that matters. Second one will be a drain on finances for a long time, maybe forever. |
Anonymous
| Money should not be the deciding factor. |