I am sick and my H asked me if he could get me anything…

Anonymous
Usually I don’t really ask him much to get/pick up things for me but I felt like having a hot coffee this morning. I asked him to text me an americano.
He came back with a regular drip and said he couldn’t get what I wanted bc the workers are on strikes and it would’ve taken too long to for them to make in the drive thru line. I asked if they really said that and he said yes and scoffed. He also said he had to wait in a long line to get the coffee for me. I guess it would e been nice to hear ‘I was happy to get it for you’ but that rarely happens ,if ever.
Anyway, just a vent and vent over.
Anonymous
Too bad. That’s your husband though.
He made excuses for not getting what you asked for.

This can’t be the fist time he’s done that
Anonymous
You wanted an Americano and you got drip and you are upset? Ok. Another day, another troll.
Anonymous
your life must be nice OP if small things like this upset you
Anonymous
I'm guessing that if he had apologized and shown more care and affection, you would forgive him for not getting exactly what you wanted. But the problem is that he treated your coffee order and your needs in general in too cavalier of a fashion.

Feel better, OP.
Anonymous
What he wanted was credit for asking. He didn't want to have to do anything, and by messing up, he's ensured you won't take him up on his offer next time.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I'm guessing that if he had apologized and shown more care and affection, you would forgive him for not getting exactly what you wanted. But the problem is that he treated your coffee order and your needs in general in too cavalier of a fashion.

Feel better, OP.

Thank you 😊
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:What he wanted was credit for asking. He didn't want to have to do anything, and by messing up, he's ensured you won't take him up on his offer next time.

Thank you for this. That’s how I was feeling
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You wanted an Americano and you got drip and you are upset? Ok. Another day, another troll.

Didn’t say I was upset. I thanked him for getting it for me
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You wanted an Americano and you got drip and you are upset? Ok. Another day, another troll.

Didn’t say I was upset. I thanked him for getting it for me


That’s the whole point of your post, no?
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