DH is so stubborn!

[Anonymous]

When DH and I have a misunderstanding he acts like a huge baby. In the moment there’s no option to talk it out. Even if it’s clear to me it’s a simple misunderstanding that’s occurring. He always chooses the nuclear option. Pouts for days. It’s so frustrating and such a waste of time. But it’s like he simply cannot think straight when upset. Once his tantrum is over we look at each and smile and realize we love the hell out of each other.

But honestly I really do wish he did not have this trait. While I love him it’s exhausting. Anyone else deal with this?

[Anonymous]

Are you giving him enough blowjobs?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When DH and I have a misunderstanding he acts like a huge baby. In the moment there’s no option to talk it out. Even if it’s clear to me it’s a simple misunderstanding that’s occurring. He always chooses the nuclear option. Pouts for days. It’s so frustrating and such a waste of time. But it’s like he simply cannot think straight when upset. Once his tantrum is over we look at each and smile and realize we love the hell out of each other.

But honestly I really do wish he did not have this trait. While I love him it’s exhausting. Anyone else deal with this?

No. Can’t say that yet I do.

That sounds like learned behavior. What’s his family like.

[Anonymous]

Stubborn in an understatement OP.

He’s a total selfish AHole with piss poor communication and conflict resolution skills.

This will only get worse, as he turns any comment, request, or question of yours into an argument where he attacks you personally. And nothing ever gets resolved. That’s his power and control angle too.

[Anonymous]

Is he on the spectrum?

[Anonymous]

I would seek marriage counseling in hopes of improving your communication skills. Talk to him when you are both calm.

[Anonymous]

That's his SN brain. He cannot control it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is he on the spectrum?

OP here. He has ADHD.