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Anonymous
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Divorced woman in my 40s and am dating.
There is someone I really like and we’ve had a few dates. How long do people wait before having sex w a new partner? I knew the rules when I was in my 20s but haven’t dated in a while |
Anonymous
| There are no rules. 🤦♂️ |
Anonymous
| I waited 3 months but we were on the same page, both dating for the first time since divorces |
Anonymous
| I was in my 30’s and it was about 2 months in. I was ready a month in but felt like I should wait, not sure why. We’re married now. |
Anonymous
| There were no rules in your 20's |
Anonymous
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Oh good
“The rules” |
Anonymous
| Wait until you marry him before having sex |
Anonymous
Oh hey, crazy religious lady. Nothing better to do again today? |
Anonymous
| I'm a little surprised that anyone who has reached the ripe age of 40 would still give a damn about any made up or perceived rules. |
Anonymous
| There are no rules. There were none in your 20s either. |
Anonymous
| I waited three hours and we're going on 25 years next summer! |
Anonymous
The first rule about dating in your 40s is don't talk about dating in your 40s... The second rule about dating in your 40s is refer to rule number one. Third: profit. |
Anonymous
And we waited 2 years and are going on 17 years! It's almost as if people and relationships differ and you have to figure out what works for you and your partner. |
Anonymous
DP, you're awfully defensive towards PP when she passed zero judgment on anything you did or didn't do. She simply stated how long it took her. Why the defensiveness? |
Anonymous
I love this! |