financial advisor and attorney recommendations

[Anonymous]

I'm looking at an amicable separation from my spouse of 20 years.
We are initially looking just to separate financially, possibly while still staying married (to keep health insurance and for some other logistical reasons.) But may want to divorce a couple years down the road. (Or maybe all our issues will be solved by separating financially )

We want a mediator to help us figure out how to fairly separate financially. Don't know if this is a financial advisor or an attorney. Or financial attorney? Or if a good mediator is enough? (we are not rich, and don't have particularly complicated finances. He is a federal employee and I stayed home with the kids and have only recently started working again.)

Please give us some recommendations! After we figure out the separation, we also need to redo our wills (that was needed anyway, since it was done early in our marriage and in a different state.) We're in MoCo MD.

I would also like recommendations for a fee-only financial advisor, for myself.

[Anonymous]

Similar situation. I just started working with Rivka: https://www.flexiblefinances.com/team-1-1