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wow, you are opening a can a worms - have you read the dress suggestion threads lately …
here’s my contribution: https://www.revolve.com/mobile/lacademie-by-marianna-lali-maxi-dress-in-burgundy/dp/LCDE-WD1007/?d=Womens&vn=true |
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Op, you'll get a lot more responses if you give us more to work with.
-What is your age, size and body type? Do you have figure features you like to show off or wish to conceal? Are you ok with mini skirts, and/or strapless or backless dresses? -What styles and colors are you drawn to? -Are you trying to match accessories you already own or are you open to buying something new? -BUDGET? |
Is this a work event? Are you trying you make your ex jealous? |
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Op back. I could have been more descriptive, apologies
I am 50. I can do above the knee as a have decent legs but not ultra short. Don’t think the base arms will look good on me, although red , in general, is my color. This is for a high tea. Budget - no more than 500. This bought my eye. Will wear Fluvogs. https://www.bloomingdales.com/shop/product/teri-jon-by-rickie-freeman-metallic-tweed-geo-stripe-dress?ID=5186142&CategoryID=2910&swatchColor=Merlot#PAGEINDEX/3 |
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You don't wear a cocktail dress to a tea.
The dress you indicated isn't a cocktail dress per se but honestly I think it's ugly fake Chanelish and awkward length. |
A "high tea"? That's just the phrase for an early casual dinner in England. Do you mean afternoon tea? If so, the folks here need to avoid giving you cocktail dresses -- afternoon tea is a daytime event. You can be "festive," but you should not be wearing a cocktail dress. |
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This popped up in an ad in this thread
https://www.elietahari.com/products/asym-ruched-vlvt-dr-er021604-burgundy |
| Try Zara and try on things that you wouldn’t ordinarily try. It’s fun. |
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If you're not too tall, this might work
https://www.bloomingdales.com/shop/product/aqua-long-sleeve-lace-dress-exclusive?ID=5726753#PAGEINDEX/3 |
Love this one! Will order it along with the red one and see which one fits better https://www.elietahari.com/products/the-gia-drape-back-dress-etr44367-ruby-red?variant=42950905200777 |
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The policing of language around "tea" in the US is so stupid. |
"High tea" and "afternoon tea" are two very different things. No one is "policing" -- and it isn't "stupid" to point out the difference when OP is asking for recommendations regarding what to wear and time of day is relevant. |