What do you use as a reward other than alcohol?

Anonymous
Trying to quit or cut down on drinking due to all the usual middle aged reasons. After a long, stressful workday, I really want a drink. What do others use as a reward/destresser/transition from the workday?

I have heard going for a walk, but that does not cut it for me!
Anonymous
Sparkling water.

Try Topo Chico Tangerine and Perrier Blackberry
Anonymous
A gift to myself has been therapy to change my mindset so I dont think I need a reward when I have a hard day.
Anonymous
>>A gift to myself has been therapy to change my mindset so I dont think I need a reward when I have a hard day

Intriguing. But don’t you get all stressed out and feel like you need something to release it?
Anonymous
I love mocktails. Phony Negroni is my fave.
Anonymous
Pelligrino.
But this was a bad day. I ate most of a pint of Hagen Dazs Vanilla Bean.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I love mocktails. Phony Negroni is my fave.


Yes, these are really good!
Anonymous
Frozen yogurt bar, dark chocolate, popcorn. But I'm not someone who drinks daily...
Anonymous
You should try AA meetings after work.
Anonymous
I used to think I deserved ice cream after a bad day. I was fat. I deserved to be healthy. Had to change my ways.

Just try another non-alcoholic drink. I gave up Diet Coke by switching to iced tea.
Anonymous
How is sparkling water a reward? It’s just carbonated water that was once barely adjacent to something fruity. You could have it literally anytime. Pop the can and done.

At least put some effort in. OP, do you like tea? What about high-quality loose leaf tea with lemon, honey, all that jazz?
Anonymous
At some point my mind switched. If I have a bad day, I deserve to double down on things that are good for me (or not terrible). Hard cardio. Favorite take out. A fluffy book. Call/texting with a friend. Early bedtime.

Anonymous
I watch something on Youtube or Netflix.
Anonymous
Sounds weird but the “bite” of lemon ginger tea kinda resonates like wine. Good luck op and ignore the haters. F
Anonymous
Stop thinking you need a reward for a day
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