| A friend constantly screams at her husband even in public. It’s annoying. So their anniversary was this past weekend and I didn’t wish her a happy anniversary. Now she is angry with me. “WHY DIDN’T YOU WISH ME A HAPPY ANNIVERSARY??” Why would I? |
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An anniversary is between the two people.
I hate when people wish me a happy anniversary. It is between myself and my DH. I don't need an anniversary to tell me we have a fabulous marriage. They are just Hallmark words... |
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Agree w PP.
Your friend is weird |
| Do most people remember other's anniversaries?? I know mine, my parents, approximately when my best friend's is. Everybody else ... I think it would be weird to keep track of that. |
| Drop her. She seems crazy and a narcissist. |
| That is so weird. The only anniversary I know by heart is mine. Even my siblings I sometimes forget exactly what day they got married |
| I don't wish anyone a happy anniversary except maybe my parents when I happen to think of it. An anniversary is for the couple, not everyone else. |
| She's nuts. Ignore her or drop her. I barely remember my own anniversary. |
| I highly doubt this happened. |
| I think your friend is being ridiculous but you have two choices. (1) Ignore her. (2) Acknowledge that maybe she's going through a rough time and tell her you're sorry it hurt her feelings that you didn't wish her a happy anniversary. She sounds high-maintenance and needy so if you want to just ignore her, that's totally reasonable. |
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DH and I both forgot our anniversary this year. We didn’t think about it until my sister wished us a happy anniversary.
I know when mine is (most years) and I know when my parents was and my sister’s is. I don’t keep track of anyone else’s. She needs a reality check. |
This. Besides my parents, I have no idea what anyone’s anniversary is. |
+1, let it be. |
| She wants to feel like her marriage is less of a train wreck. Tell her you’re sorry. Also ask her how she’s doing and if she’s ok, beside she doesn’t seem happy with Larlo. |
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Sounds like a troll post.
No one celebrates an anniversary that isn't theirs, unless they are invited to a formal event, in which case, they do need to offer congratulations and a small gift if they attend. |