Didn’t wish friend a happy anniversary

Anonymous
A friend constantly screams at her husband even in public. It’s annoying. So their anniversary was this past weekend and I didn’t wish her a happy anniversary. Now she is angry with me. “WHY DIDN’T YOU WISH ME A HAPPY ANNIVERSARY??” Why would I?
Anonymous
An anniversary is between the two people.

I hate when people wish me a happy anniversary.

It is between myself and my DH. I don't need an anniversary to tell me we have a fabulous marriage.

They are just Hallmark words...

Anonymous
Agree w PP.
Your friend is weird
Anonymous
Do most people remember other's anniversaries?? I know mine, my parents, approximately when my best friend's is. Everybody else ... I think it would be weird to keep track of that.
Anonymous
Drop her. She seems crazy and a narcissist.
Anonymous
That is so weird. The only anniversary I know by heart is mine. Even my siblings I sometimes forget exactly what day they got married
Anonymous
I don't wish anyone a happy anniversary except maybe my parents when I happen to think of it. An anniversary is for the couple, not everyone else.
Anonymous
She's nuts. Ignore her or drop her. I barely remember my own anniversary.
Anonymous
I highly doubt this happened.
Anonymous
I think your friend is being ridiculous but you have two choices. (1) Ignore her. (2) Acknowledge that maybe she's going through a rough time and tell her you're sorry it hurt her feelings that you didn't wish her a happy anniversary. She sounds high-maintenance and needy so if you want to just ignore her, that's totally reasonable.
Anonymous
DH and I both forgot our anniversary this year. We didn’t think about it until my sister wished us a happy anniversary.

I know when mine is (most years) and I know when my parents was and my sister’s is. I don’t keep track of anyone else’s.

She needs a reality check.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Drop her. She seems crazy and a narcissist.


This. Besides my parents, I have no idea what anyone’s anniversary is.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Do most people remember other's anniversaries?? I know mine, my parents, approximately when my best friend's is. Everybody else ... I think it would be weird to keep track of that.


+1, let it be.
Anonymous
She wants to feel like her marriage is less of a train wreck. Tell her you’re sorry. Also ask her how she’s doing and if she’s ok, beside she doesn’t seem happy with Larlo.
Anonymous
Sounds like a troll post.

No one celebrates an anniversary that isn't theirs, unless they are invited to a formal event, in which case, they do need to offer congratulations and a small gift if they attend.

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