Why are some women more likely to approach married men?

[Anonymous]

Why are some women more likely to approach a married men?

I think a single man is less likely to approach a woman who is married. But for some single women, they just don't care. Why??

[Anonymous]

They see married men as taken and more desirable because another competing female has marked them as so

[Anonymous]

Its probably mostly people they’re physically attracted to as opposed to wanting a long term relationship. I think they know that married men are easy targets because they’re likely not getting sex at home. And, if they do have sex with them, the men are clean, good enough to marry, will f them like they’re on a prison break and not tell anyone. Its about as NSA as a relationship can get.

Plus, I think there’s probably another dynamic of women wanting what other women have and “being so hot” that even a married man can’t resist them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why are some women more likely to approach a married men?

I think a single man is less likely to approach a woman who is married. But for some single women, they just don't care. Why??

I think you're mistaken. There's probably equal numbers of people of both genders who prefer going after people in relationships. They may have different reasons, but they're both out there.

[Anonymous]

In my opinion there is one reason. Men respect other men and women do not. Call me sexist if you want I don't care. Men know that men are unpredictable. Men risk a lot by approaching a woman who they know is married. Her husband's reaction is unpredictable.

On the other hand a woman knows that if she goes after a married man in 99% of cases his wife isn't going to go after her. And she knows she has an exit strategy that will always work. Namely she will just say he lied to her and play stupid. And it works.

Yes I am sexist for saying that women don't lose sleep destroying another woman's marriage.

[Anonymous]

A few years ago I worked with a single woman in the office who was on mission to get married. I was divorced at the time so we talk about a lot of personal stuff. This woman told me she particularly target married men because they are more likely to want to remarry when they are divorced. I asked her about their wives and her answer was savage. She said she didn't care and it wasn't her problem. She argued that it's their wives' job to keep them happy and away from other women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In my opinion there is one reason. Men respect other men and women do not. Call me sexist if you want I don't care. Men know that men are unpredictable. Men risk a lot by approaching a woman who they know is married. Her husband's reaction is unpredictable.

On the other hand a woman knows that if she goes after a married man in 99% of cases his wife isn't going to go after her. And she knows she has an exit strategy that will always work. Namely she will just say he lied to her and play stupid. And it works.

Yes I am sexist for saying that women don't lose sleep destroying another woman's marriage.

Put another way, men are more aggressive than women. News at 11.

[Anonymous]

I think they may be scared of serious commitment, they may think somebody that is taken is more desirable, they may feel self validated when somebody prefer them to the wife, in some rare cases the man did not disclosed to be married

[Anonymous]

Women want men that other women want. It’s like they’re pre-vetted. They also like the validation of knowing that they’re so beautiful that even taken men can’t resist them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In my opinion there is one reason. Men respect other men and women do not. Call me sexist if you want I don't care. Men know that men are unpredictable. Men risk a lot by approaching a woman who they know is married. Her husband's reaction is unpredictable.

On the other hand a woman knows that if she goes after a married man in 99% of cases his wife isn't going to go after her. And she knows she has an exit strategy that will always work. Namely she will just say he lied to her and play stupid. And it works.

Yes I am sexist for saying that women don't lose sleep destroying another woman's marriage.

Put another way, men are more aggressive than women. News at 11.

Of course duh. Of you are single woman and want a married man honestly it's not that difficult. If you are persistent and lack personal ethics you can even find one who will leave his wife for you. Of course you shouldn't marry such a man. But some women are very very desperate with an expiring biological clock and will act irrationally and stupidly.

[Anonymous]

My ex husband's AP blamed me for my husband's affair. Go figure.

[Anonymous]

The premise is false and misogynistic

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The premise is false and misogynistic

What’s premise? That women hit on married men?

[Anonymous]

I don't think your premise is accurate. Married men regularly pursue single women and women thanks to social conditioning basically accept any man who pursues them. Assuming they know he's married they often fall for the mans lies about his wife and their relationship. They end up feeling sorry for him and believe they will fix everything for him.

I think men do it just as readily for married women and it's a conquest thing for them if they're hesitant it's not about respect but not wanting to be " seconds"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why are some women more likely to approach a married men?

I think a single man is less likely to approach a woman who is married. But for some single women, they just don't care. Why??

Well, decent and sensible ones do care.