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Would you talk to your boss? My job is very weird and disturbing. Not the job but the people. *my manager ignored me for 2 days. *a coworker(man) yanked the door handle when he saw me go in there. Same male randomly gripped me once. *a coworker (-same woman from title) bullies that new girl and also is very rude and doesn’t let anyone sit in her spot. Its not ”her” spot. She also commented that the new girl wears 2 much perfume in front of her. *young coworker discusses pen*s size and talks about having s*x in the freezer at work. With all this being sad, they all flinch if they see our boss show up. So they know they’re fake as hell. Should I say something or not? Would you? Also, I have essentially been made out the be some sort of scapegoat there. Because i said what i thought one time. And they got pissed |
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Have you posted another thread on being harassed and should you tell boss?
My advice is write down all the personal harassment you have experienced, names, dates, where, who witnessed. Same for other stuff. If you are being scapegoated talk to an employment lawyer about this. Some have free initial consults to see if you have a case. Even without litigation ime it is useful to have them contact employer on your behalf. |
| You need to find another job. This place is dysfunctional and nothing you say or do is going to change it. |
| You work in a restaurant? |
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Shouldn't be wearing perfume in food establishment.
Perhaps manager has nothing to tell you as you are doing great. You are too much in everyone's business. You are collecting troublesome things, but it's just not adding up to a mountain. Lots of people talk about s*x at work. Since you know better, tell them to not talk about it in public. They may be young and clueless. You all have a lot of free time there. Find a busier place to work. |
| You should be trying every day to get a job at a better restaurant |
| Some of these things are not like the others. Why you don’t seem to know this is troubling. |
Yup, same poster. Complains but never foes anything about it. Makes one wonder if they are posting fiction. |
| Where do you work? |
https://www.theoriginalmrbeef.com Mr. Beef? |
| You must assert some dominance. |
No they are just helpless but like the attention of the "poor me what do I do?!" |
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You again???
Troll elsewhere than DCUM. Your work follies just aren't interesting. |