DD is almost 18 and a senior in high school. About two weeks ago she started dating her best guy friend. This morning I noticed two large hickeys on her neck which she tried to cover up by wearing a hoodie and having her hair down.
I haven’t said anything but I’m super upset and angry at both of them. Neither of them have dated anyone before so I’m guessing he didn’t realize that it doesn’t take much to give someone a hickey. What should I say to her? To him? I know him well and he comes over at least once a week. |
She's 17? Be grateful it's just hickeys. |
Are you serious? |
Don’t say anything. She is 17, and has a boyfriend. Trying to control and micromanage her and thinking you get to decide if he kisses her and where is creepy and way overstepping. Teens get buckets. It is 100% normal so I have no idea why you are mad or angry. |
Who cares?? |
NO BIG DEAL |
Take her for birth control, tell her you'd prefer to wait but you aren't ready to be a grandma and give him condoms. |