Do you judge potential partners by their social media?

[Anonymous]

Are there any red or green flags in regards to social media use?


Red flag for me is following fitness models.

Green flag maybe following an author or something.

[Anonymous]

If they follow a lot of women "scantily clad". If they follow women whose entire identity is only their looks. If they spend time on their phone rather than in a conversation with someone they're with.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I'd rather they had none. I have none. My husband has none. It's the rare person who can use it wisely and not get stuck in a bubble.

[Anonymous]

Following a soft core porn star is red flag. I won't date someone who already had a parasocial lover.

There's plenty of NSA porn available.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I'd rather they had none. I have none. My husband has none. It's the rare person who can use it wisely and not get stuck in a bubble.

Similar, I'm ok with limited. I have a dead FB account I haven't checked in years, an Instagram where I never post, and a LinkedIn I look at only on occasions I switch jobs/titles. DH had nothing but I convinced him to get on LinkedIn when he was job hunting. It helped a bit then, I don't think he's checked it in like 7 years. Nothing else.

Do not relate to the following of bikini models and this would be a massive no for me.

[Anonymous]

Yes, if they post a lot and have a lot of friends it’s a turn-off. Makes me think they’re insecure and need validation. Nothing sexier than someone who’s selective with social
media.