Work conference dillemma

Anonymous
So I was chosen to attend a week long out of town company conference-myself along with my supervisor will be the individuals representing our department. Honestly for various reasons I really don't want to go but I felt like I had to say yes and that turning it down would create problems professionally. I am hopefully about 12-15 years from retirement and have no interest in advancing into a larger leadership role but I need and want to continue to "maintain" at my current level (not lose my job!). However, I work in a toxic, gossipy environment and I'm worried that my attending this conference is going to engender envy, backstabbing and ultimately create more problems for me when all I want to do is do good work and keep a low profile until I can hopefully retire. My supervisor is not well liked or trusted and I have concerns about being associated with her. Thus far I've been able to keep a pleasant, professional distance with her, however, at this conference I'm going to be forced to spend a lot of time with her socializing, there's going to be a lot of photos taken, etc.

Any suggestions for how I should handle this situation? I was really surprised I was chosen but I think that probably a lot of it is that my supervisor does not see me as a threat (rightfully so). Also, I'm friendly and know how to "behave" at these sorts of things-I'm not going to get drunk and make an ass out of myself, etc.


Anonymous
Don't engage with drama. And you sound like you are old enough to not care what others think, so don't care what others think.
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